I would say the comparisons to Lohan are a good start. It's been clear to me those comparisons are not about acting ability, but the scandalous self centered and self destructive elements of Lindsay's life. The way Will and Jadas horrible parenting has been discussed I also see as tearing the girl down. After all, the sign of horrible parenting is horrible children. Of couse the 20 year old boy has been torn down even further. As I said in an earlier post all the points about a 13 year old not having good judgement only matters if the 20 year old is a predator. Now, having explained these points I will concede that my perception of the points made may not meet the reality of your thoughts as you were typing them. But if that is the case then I think it should also be recognized that your perception of the photo may also be wrong, and that Jadas defense may be just as true as your saying you are looking out for a girl rather than tearing her down.