I don't buy sex addict with Dean. I think he's just a man who doesn't have enough respect for women he marries to stay faithful to them. While I am sympathetic for Tori because it's not only humiliating to have a husband who cheats, but even more so to have it be so public, he told her who he was when he cheated on his first wife with her. And truthfully, Toril told him that she thought adultery was okay in marriage, since she was cheating on her husband to be with him. Who knows - maybe for both of them it is okay. Maybe they've had an understanding that going outside their marriage is fine, and if they have, to each their own. But if they did not, hopefully Tori will approach men in the future with more realistic expectations -- if they are willing to cheat WITH her, they're likely willing to cheat ON her.