I just think that a drill instructor by nature is "In your face". He was simply being true to what he does every day with everyone who challenges the authority of the instructor. It just didn't offend me in any way, and not only because it was Dustin, whom I detest. If I was embarrassed by anyone's behaviors this season on the show, it was the first episode where Brat lost her marbles with Harvey(to her credit she has been good ever since), and everything that Dustin did. If I was personally going to get sensitive about anything, it would be Dustin and his constant sexual references to Kimberly. First he implied that she and Brat were lovers, then he starts to talk about what his "instrument" could do for her. He needed his manhood challenged for trying to demean a woman. He's a coward for calling out people who have no interest in the challenge. Someone finally called him on his bull*&^%.