Whaa? I don't see how all the profanity and insults are kindness or how Dayana was rude except that she said Lisa was loud? (Which Lisa is).Originally Posted by lizard
They weren't even open to hearing what Dayana had to say, much less doing it.As a young person she could have asked them to make it s little more fresh or hip; and I think they would have.
Here's the thing... everyone has bad ideas, and most everyone has good ones. Some have more bad ones than good ones. But it's a part of the CA to throw all those ideas out there and pick the best. Just because someone has a bunch of bad ideas, doesn't mean that they won't have a good one... being open and receptive is an attribute.
In the very first episode, Lisa said Dayana was going to be all beauty with nothing going on upstairs. Despite any evidence otherwise, she stubbornly stuck to that idea. That is: Beauty=stupidity. This kind of pre-judging and refusal to change one's mind despite evidence to the contrary... coupled with looking down on those you've pre-judged shows the essence of the 'kindness' of Lisa Lampoonelli: every racist, sexist, or prejudice person does the very same thing.