I haven't read any reviews apart from the one in EW. I studiously avoided them as I didn't want to be spoiled. At the point I read the EW review I had already gotten past the birth scene so my sister (who had already read the review) said I wouldn't be spoiled. The review seemed to be mostly about the birth scene which the author seemed to feel was unnecessarily gory. I hold the opposite view myself. I haven't looked anywhere else for reviews but I'm not surprised people are crying pedophilia visavis the Jacob-Renesmee relationship, which is stupid, as you indicate; if they'd read the other books they would have seen it is nothing like that.