Geek, you say you are re-reading She's Come Undone. Have you read I Know This Much Is True?
I read She's Come Undone first, and my goodness I hated that book. I mean I absolutley loathed the thing. I will spare you my rantings here, but suffice it to say, I was NOT a Wally Lamb fan. Then a friend convinced me to read I Know This Much Is True, and I had to eat my words. It was a brilliantly moving book that I adored from the very beginning to the very end.
Just curious to see what you thought since you liked his first book.