*sigh* I don't know, JR, she just started crying and then saying, "Maybe I like to torture myself." I don't know what to do anymore, or how else I can help her and it makes me so sad. She's a wonderful person and should be with someone who really wants and deserves her.Originally Posted by JR.
I think actually I'm going to try Lucy's suggestion--see if I can make a deal with her, and cajole her into reading this book with lunch or a spa thingy, something to make her feel good about herself (at the same time I can ask her how she feels about what she read). Or like Broadway was saying, maybe I should get a copy for myself, and if she doesn't read it, I'll know and can quote stuff to her. I hope this doesn't sound mean but I have to admit to you guys I occasionally wish I could just grab her by the shoulders and shake some sense into her.