And as someone who has spent a career in the Fortune 500 world, I can tell you Shelly didn't just "learn" these behaviors in the BB house or due to the stress of the BB house. These are very well honed tactics and am sure have helped get Shelly up the corporate ladder while using stepping on her co-workers and peers as the rungs. You just don't develop behavior and reactions like Shelly's. What has happened, is that the BB house has exposed a lot of who Shelly really is and her tactics for getting what she wants.
She has not painted a pretty picture.
For someone who is so concerned about her "persona", she really has not controlled herself and acted appropriately. Although, in her delusional internal mentalscape, she has conducted herself with class, honesty and integrity - a perfect role model. The joke though is on her. She can't claim it was the "edit". We have watched it unfold, unedited. She gave the producers so much fodder to work with to portray who she really is. You can't create an "edit" without the material.
This woman needs to take a good, hard look at herself when she gets out. She doesn't have a lot to be proud of. Her trash-talking and meanness have been legendary. That is not a role model. I feel sorry for her child (who I do believe she loves with all her heart and is very serious about raising correctly). She needs to come to an honest place about herself - and not the self-delusion she is living - and make changes, so that she can be the role model for Josie that she desperately and whole-heartedly wants to be.