I agree Mari, that in most of the upscale places you can order cafe latte and mocha supreme and all that... but if in her whole "career" as a barista, she has not once had some older guy sit down and say "Cup a Joe Sweetheart" then she lives in another world. I have been to Oregon on business and I have eaten at breakfast type diners and higher end restaurants alike, I have seen the type of people in Oregon.. I can't imagine that she has never heard that. Its almost impossible.
ETA: I love Marg Helgenberger from CSI, I like your avatar