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    The Rules of the Game

    Some folks have complained that the Benefactor has no structure. Respectfully , what frickin reality show does.
    There have been rants about narcissism , poor planning , and the general downfall of TV. Well, after "Are you Hot" there wasn't anywhere to go but up. I think once the show gets a few eps in , it will become easier to understand what's up.

    Til then from www.blogmaverick.com the rules . As with that pirate code in Pirates of the Caribbean - ya know they are more like a guideline.

    Success and Motivation - The Benefactor Tests

    I have been asked when the next installment is coming. Since they go hand in hand I decided to list the topics that will be part of the blog series, which happen to match up to the Factors for Success that I test for in The Benefactor in coming weeks.

    1. Time is more valuable than money

    You have to learn how to use time wisely and be productive. How wisely you use your time will have far more impact on your life and success than any amount of money.

    2. Random Acts of Kindness

    Being successful entails being able to not only get along with people, but also give something back. No one gets to the top on their own, and I believe we all should be able to make those around us smile.

    3. No Balls, No Babies

    This is something a blackjack dealer once told me when I asked him if I should hit or stick. It is also my favorite line and probably the thing I tell myself the most. Once you are prepared, and you think you have every angle of preparation covered. Then you have to go for it. No balls, no babies.

    4. Work Hard Play Hard

    I went 7 years without a vacation, but I sure managed to have fun. You have to find ways to blow off steam so you donít blow a gasket.

    5. Donít let fear be a roadblack

    You can use fear as a roadblock or as motivation. There is always going to be someone who is competing with you, and they are going to win sometimes. Rather than not doing something for fear of losing, take on the challenge. If you fail, get back up and go for it again. I have been fired from more jobs than most people have had! In the search for success, you can fail any number of times, but you only have to get it right one time.

    6. Expect the unexpected, and always be ready

    You donít wake up in the morning with someone telling you that everyone is going to be selling lemonade so whoever sells the most wins. Itís the exact opposite. Life is unpredictable, which is exactly why we made The Benefactor unpredictable.

    You never know when an opportunity will open or close. You have to realize this and always know that the game is on. Whatever your are striving to achieve isnít waiting in one static place for you to find it.

    Itís the opposite. Everyone has inside of them what it takes to be successful. You just have to be ready to unleash it when the opportunity presents itself.

    7. Itís ok to yell and be yelled at

    One of the rules I have is that I donít mind if people raise their voice and even yell a little bit. At MicroSolutions, my partner Martin and I would have some knockdown drag outs. They were always short bursts. They didnít happen a lot. When they did, I knew, and he knew, that this was an issue we were passionate about.

    As my businesses grew, it happened less often because people deferred to me more often. I hated that. If someone believed strongly enough in something and I was being passionate about something, I wanted them to match my level of passion if they felt that strongly about it.

    So I told people that if they thought it was the only way to get through to me, to go for it. This may not work for you in corporate America, but anyone in a family business, or in a private business of any size with a partner or two, knows exactly what I am talking about!

    8. Everyone gets down, the key is how soon you get back up

    I canít count how many times I have gotten up in the morning dreading the day. I wasnt motivated, I was tired. I just wanted to crawl back in bed.

    Other times, I had lost a deal, we had lost a game, something wasnít working. I just wanted to crawl under a rock and disappear.

    EVERYONE goes through those moments. The key is how you fight through them.

    Knowing that everyone has those days, the people who truly will be successful are those that fight through the quickest and come back stronger and smarter

    9. Itís not if the glass is half empty, or half full, itís who is pouring the water

    This is one of my favorites. They key in business and success at any endeavor is doing your best to control your destiny. You canít always do it, but you have to take every opportunity you can to be as prepared and ahead of the competition as you possibly can be. Take the lead, and you can control your own destiny.

    10. Itís not in the dreaming, itís in the doing

    Everyone has it in them to be successful. EVERYONE. Most people only dream about what they do if they were successful, or how they might get there.

    Anyone can dream. Anyone and everyone does have ideas about how they might be successful. It doesnít matter if your definition of success is being a great parent, being an athlete, a business person, whatever.

    When I catch myself daydreaming about how Iím going to do this or that, I always try to wake up and ask myself just how Iím going to get from where I am, to where I want to be. What EXACTLY is it going to take to do it, rather than dream about it.

    11. Pigs Get Fat, Hogs Get Slaughtered

    This is one I got from my partner Todd Wagner. He is right on. Sometimes you have to go for the jugular, but more often than not, the biggest mistake people make are getting too greedy. Every good deal has a win win solution. There is nothing I hate more than someone who tries to squeeze every last penny out of the deal. They often raise the aggrevation level to the point where itís not worth doing the deal. They also raise the dislike level to the point where even if a deal gets done, you look for ways to never do business with that person or company again.

    Business happens over years and years. Value is measured in the total upside of a business relationship, not by how much you squeezed out in any one deal.

    12. You only have to be right once

    I have been fired from more jobs than most people have had. Some jobs I have had were so bad, the only way I could justify them to myself was that I was getting paid to learn (as opposed to paying to go to school).

    I have started a stupid business that was doomed to fail (selling powdered milk). I have dated more girls that I wanted to. The beauty of success, whether itís finding the girl of your dreams, the right job, or financial success among many others, is that it doesnít matter how many times you have failed, you only have to be right once.

    No one keeps score. There are so many ways that each of us can find happiness and success in our endeavors, that it never really matters how many times you fail. You only have to be right once

    These are some of the things I use to guide myself in different situations.

    Maybe they apply to your situation, maybe they donít, thatís up to you to decide. They are the foundation for many of the tests and challenges, and the spirit of what I tried to do in The Benefactor

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    Thanks for posting those eny! Pigs get fat, hogs get slaughtered has been a personal favorite of mine since the first time I heard someone say it. I'm going to be really interested to see how Mark integrates these rules into the challenges.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eny
    Some folks have complained that the Benefactor has no structure. Respectfully , what frickin reality show does.
    I would say most do. I really can't think of more than 5 that don't have structure. Maybe they have twists, but they also have structure.

    I will give this show another shot to see if there are more concrete rules set in place. But judging by the first episode this show is exactly like 'The Assistent' but not as funny.

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