Last time Emily was a teenager she became a single mother and lost "the love of her life". She is now a mother of a young child and whether she likes it or not, she can't go back to being a teenager. She has responsibilities. I wonder if looking to someone who makes her feel young is really the smartest thing in terms of a longterm relationship. I haven't really seen much of Jeff...he seems nice enough, is soft spoken, is not getting involved in any of the silliness that is developing between some of the other men in the house, comes from a good family and is apparently involved in a worthy charity. All good things, however, he does seem to act in a juvenile manner in other ways...the hair, the skateboarding, the clothes last night, the fact that he actively seems to encourage people to underestemate him by how he presents himself. I know people can justify that is all in good fun, he is showing his quirky, individualistic side, and maybe I am just an old fuddy duddy, but to me those things are screaming "look at me", and if I am looking for a husband and a father for my child, I don't need that. Now we have seen only four episodes and have yet to see a date between the two, plus, who knows what has been left on the editing floor, so maybe my opinion will change, but thus far, I really fail to see what Emily's attraction is to Jeff...but then compared to Ryan, he must be looking mighty fine.