As much as I was an Arie fan and always felt that Jef looks too young for Emily, I surely do not see anything gross or inappropriate about their relationship. He is older than she is and clearly she likes something she sees, so I just do not see the problem there.
All that aside, let's bring the topic back to Arie. Me included.
I would want Arie and his sensual eyes all over my screen. Even more than his kisses, it was his eyes that got me.
The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity. Dorothy Parker, (attributed)