I had to google the pictures you are all talking about, and I agree, if that is the "real" Jef and not the cleaned up version we are seeing on the Bachelorette, Emily is in for a rude awakening! I hope that she is also googling the pics, so that she can she how disingenuous Jef has been with her with regard to his "true" self.
I have to disagree. I've watched this show since Amanda and Alex (I think it was Amanda) and I find Jef to be the most genuine guy yet. As for his hair, I have a feeling Jef changes up his hair all the time, and not to impress a female or anyone. He's just Jef. As for Emily, for someone who was so in love with a race car driver and involved with his friends who are heavily in the race car circuit (and his looks was not a Brad or Sean type) I don't think she will mind at all what Jef use to look like and we know she doesn't mind what he looks like now. Now obviously, I don't really know the guy, but hopefully time will tell he is what he is. As for Emily, now she I worry about. lol I hope she truly does love the person she chooses and steers away from the spotlight and has those babies she claims she wants. I can see her with either Jef or Arie, never did see her with Sean, but I'm rooting for Jef.
Can we tell from a photo that they have been doing drugs? Of course not. The way they look or dress may not be everyone's cup of tea, and of course looks have a great deal to do with whether we are attracted to a person or not, but it's stretching it to assume they are druggies because they don't dress to fit the mold.
I so agree!!!! There are so many Hollywood actors out there (for example) that when I find out they are in rehab for drugs I'm shocked. You can't tell a person's personality, character, morals, values, etc., by a photograph. And what I have seen of Jef on this show so far sure doesn't portray him as a druggie. I didn't find him attractive when he first rode in on his skateboard, and surely didn't think Em was the type to be so giddy over him, but after seeing them on their dates together I'm sold. I sure hope he gets his Em and Ricki.