Please refrain from baiting and/or belittling other poster's opinions. Everyone here is allowed their opinions about the contestants, but getting on someone's case becase they don't agree with you is against our rules.
This thing is almost over, so please let's not end it on a sour note.
Time you enjoy wasting was not wasted - John Lennon
So not what I'm seeing, I think Jef is a sweety and very much into Emily
When the heck did I become a "fort fogey?"
That was a great message! And I've had a terrible day, so thank you.I love random acts of kindness.Really, realy appreciated.Scott- RIP SDL<3
Yikes, I'm a Fort Fogey, too!
When a guy tells a single mom who is supposedly looking for a great dad for her young daughter, that she (Emily) will need to keep him out of trouble while he tries to get her into trouble ... how is that good father material? I have no doubt Emily loves her daughter and is a good mom, but she's in some kind of "ooh, I feel 18 again" trance and is not thinking clearly or enough about the dad potential of Jef. He's more big brother material.
When Emily mentions an "edge," I suspect what she means is she wants someone with spark. I would much prefer a guy like Jef who would come home every night with the desire to go and do! Maybe hike a trail or check out a sunflower maze, things they could do with Ricki. Sure beats the thought of ending up with a guy who would just want to come home, pop open a beer, and vegetate on the couch. When vacations rolled around, would you want a man who'd take you to a canyon to watch him skydive or a guy who'd drag you to the bowling alley to watch him in his week-long tournament...