8/1 ShowThread Finale!!!!!!!!!! West Coast Spoilers

[murphytoo]

Ok - run JP, run. My DH's sister never liked any of his gf's. Turns out, her husband was an abusive, never around drunk. She needed brother to be there for her all the time so she could tolerate continuing to be married to the bum. When DH found a girl he wanted to spend time with, couldn't be around as much, she had to face the fact that it was time for a divorce. Oh, she hated me. Run JP, run.

[lurkerwench]

Is it any wonder that Ashley has self-esteem issues with that sister?!? Older sister, imo....extremely jealous, manipulative, not kind at all. Under 30/divorce/tats all over... dunno...for some reason, I don't see that as being great at decision-making.

[fireflyer]

Uhoh, I might've just changed my mind. Ashley and Ben really DO seem well-suited for each other. I've always kinda believed it would be JP, but now I might be switching sides...
Hmmm.

I was kinda sad that she grabbed BOTH guys' butts when they departed. I guess that's her thing. But a butt-grab seems a little bit personal to me, I can't imagine being in the frame of mind where I'd be okay with grabbing 2 guys' butts

[murphytoo]

They don't show any of her date with JP, but show the date with Ben?

[jucamer]

Uhoh, I might've just changed my mind. Ashley and Ben really DO seem well-suited for each other. I've always kinda believed it would be JP, but now I might be switching sides...
Hmmm.

I was kinda sad that she grabbed BOTH guys' butts when they departed. I guess that's her thing. But a butt-grab seems a little bit personal to me, I can't imagine being in the frame of mind where I'd be okay with grabbing 2 guys' butts

Nah - all they have is loving dog voices

[jucamer]

They don't show any of her date with JP, but show the date with Ben?

They will probably show JP's date after her date with Ben

[murphytoo]

Is it any wonder that Ashley has self-esteem issues with that sister?!? Older sister, imo....extremely jealous, manipulative, not kind at all. Under 30/divorce/tats all over... dunno...for some reason, I don't see that as being great at decision-making.

We were just saying that here about the tats. Did she consult with little sister on those - because, that's a big life decision. Maybe ash didn't like sister's husband, and this is payback?

[fireflyer]

I could've done without seeing Ashley stick her hands under her swimsuit top and rub her own boobs. Yuck.

[Midol]

Go Ashley! I'm liking her more these past few episodes and I want her to learn to trust her own judgement. You can always listen to other opinions and use them to help make your own judgements. Any mistakes should be your own and not because you listened to other people...so speaks the voice of experience! However, the fact that big sis has been divorced and has previous reality show experience makes me think she is in this for her own best interest rather than Ashley's. She is also clearly more attracted to Ben while JP is so not her type hence part of the reason for the dislike and trying to foyst her own opinions on a younger sister.

[jucamer]

We were just saying that here about the tats. Did she consult with little sister on those - because, that's a big life decision. Maybe ash didn't like sister's husband, and this is payback?

Well since she is divorced I'd say Ashley was right