I've felt bad for the way you Ed fans have been treated. While I'm not an Ed fan myself, meaning I wouldn't pick him myself, if Jilli picks him I really hope that they are happy and it works out for them. I've had a giggle at some of his clothes and took a second look at some of the g/f gate rumors and will be interested to know if any of it pans out, he might be a bad guy, he might not be, he's not perfect, but who is? - but, I'm certainly not going to be ugly to anyone about it, especially his fans. I am really sorry for some of the things others have said that have been personal against you for being fans of Ed.
Really and truly, I'll feel bad for the guys who loose and i'll be happy for the guy who wins and I'll be happy for Jilli - no matter who the guy is
Peace, Love & Jilli Beans!