Jesse - Bachelorette 4 - Page 12

Julz · 07-03-2008, 04:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dawnatlanta

"When you find the right person...you will KNOW it..."

If this is the case, then I just don't think it can be Jesse. I don't think she would "KNOW it" with him, even through the FD, and still keep Jason. If she knows she is picking Jesse, I really think she would have sent Jason home to his son and turned down Jeremy at the FRC.

I actually really like Jesse and am happy that it is either him or Jason! I can see her happy with either one. Jesse reminds me of my brother-in-law who seemed irresponsible for a long time but as soon as he fell in love, he immediately got real and is a wonderful father and husband. He was just waiting for the right one (and they were truly love at first sight, too - talking about engagment within 2 weeks!).

I'm not exactly sure what you mean that if this is true, then it couldn't be Jesse...She has seen something in him that has kept him around...

I think her delima is something has grown with Jesse and he's fun and loving and adventurous...with Jason it's stability, good father, etc...

I'm routing for Jesse...

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sjgirl08 · 07-03-2008, 05:33 PM

Well for what is worth I knew my bf for about 2 wks then I moved to be with him and 10 yrs later we are still together. Was it love at first sight and I can honestly say its true love! You will know it when the right person comes along! He makes me act like a teenager when he is around.Can it happen within 2 wks or 6 wks? Absolutely! I am proof of that! So again GO Jessie!

TwinCity · 07-03-2008, 05:55 PM

totally agree sj.... same happened to me... now 35 years and 7 kids.... Yes, it is truly possible.

cantbelieveicar · 07-03-2008, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Turtlekeeper

The thing that bothers me about Jesse is, I think he’s so caught up in the show.. In his one PI he states wow how can you compete with the dates DeAnna is taking me on.. What is it going to be like when I ask her to go out to a movie and then pizza? Or something like that.. I hope he realizes that their life isn’t going to be anything like it is on the show.. If she picks Jesse, I don’t know that it’ll go the distance, once he’s back in reality and see how life is really going to be with her..

I really like Jesse. But...I liked him for who he was initially. I feel like it would be a little bit sad for DeAnna to choose him because I think it would change him too much. I love her too...but...all of a sudden Jesse cut his hair short, is wearing button-up shirts and suits, and has obviously gotten much more serious. If you are right for each other, you don't have to change that much! He even says in a couple different PIs "I want to be the guy that she is looking for". This is a red flag! Please just be Jesse! He seems like such a great friend and a very fun guy! That doesn't have to change for who you marry. There is some amazing girl who will love to have babies in Colorado and take them to watch Jesse snowboard and travel together. Maybe that *is* DeAnna. But...if not...I just would hate to see his spirit change for a woman... How long will he be happy??

boomer_lady · 07-03-2008, 10:16 PM

DeAnna loves Jesse

TwinCity · 07-04-2008, 12:07 PM

Everyone loves Jess BUT she is not IN love with him. He is the guy that everyone wants at their parties... and to hang out with but not for a serious relationship that he is NOT (admittedly) ready for.

natashapierre · 07-04-2008, 01:35 PM

I just keep going back to what she said to Jeremy... that when she went on the overnight dates she realized that she was "already in love" with both Jesse and Jason. ...

If you actually name *two* guys in this regard, I don't see how the "we just knew" scenario plays out. ... I've had feelings for two guys at once, and I've also had the "we just knew" situation. And I really can't imagine them being combined. That sounds like she "just knew" with two people at once (and not early on in her relationship with them, either, but after some time, which also doesn't seem like "just knew" to me, either), and then, about a week later, realized that, no, she really "just knew" with one of them and was so sure about it that she could get engaged to him while her "just knew" with the other had already evaporated.

I just don't see it, especially since I haven't seen any actual major chemistry between DeAnna and either Jesse or Jason., only liking and affection, mainly ... Now, Meredith and Ian, yeah, that was a "just knew" situation, I think. But this one -- it just doesn't look that way to me.

I'm not saying she can't be in love with either Jesse or Jason. But I just don't think that this was one of those lightning-bolt, big-immediate-click loves, if it is a love. She's articulated too many different feelings in the course of the series for that, if you ask me.

TwinCity · 07-04-2008, 10:32 PM

have you noticed how she always says Jason first.... then adds Jesse, like she is trying to keep it even.

tawneej · 07-05-2008, 01:02 AM

I was looking back through posts Ron (thesherriff) made, and thought this was an interesting comment he made after watching the episode with Jesse and De's one-on-one Natasha Beddingfield date:

"I really liked her edit though... and thought she was very personable on her date with Jesse, she sort of changed into this person that was inspiring to watch. That relationship is beginning to intrigue me."

Julz · 07-05-2008, 01:25 PM

Is it Monday YET???? The suspense is killing me!!!! I want Jesse to be F1 and it is scary because it never works out the way I want it too...

I would be grumpy and moody too, if I had to sit back and watch the show without being able to say a word about it. Not being able to defend myself, explain how things [i]really[i] went down, etc...

I'm pulling for ya Jesse!!! Good Luck!!!

07-03-2008, 05:33 PM	#112
sjgirl08 FORT Newbie Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 49	Re: Jesse - Bachelorette 4 Well for what is worth I knew my bf for about 2 wks then I moved to be with him and 10 yrs later we are still together. Was it love at first sight and I can honestly say its true love! You will know it when the right person comes along! He makes me act like a teenager when he is around.Can it happen within 2 wks or 6 wks? Absolutely! I am proof of that! So again GO Jessie!

07-03-2008, 05:55 PM	#113
TwinCity FORT Regular Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 67	Re: Jesse - Bachelorette 4 totally agree sj.... same happened to me... now 35 years and 7 kids.... Yes, it is truly possible.

07-03-2008, 10:16 PM	#115
boomer_lady . Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 596	Re: Jesse - Bachelorette 4 DeAnna loves Jesse

07-04-2008, 12:07 PM	#116
TwinCity FORT Regular Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 67	Re: Jesse - Bachelorette 4 Everyone loves Jess BUT she is not IN love with him. He is the guy that everyone wants at their parties... and to hang out with but not for a serious relationship that he is NOT (admittedly) ready for.

07-04-2008, 01:35 PM	#117
natashapierre FORT Fogey Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 1,207	Re: Jesse - Bachelorette 4 I just keep going back to what she said to Jeremy... that when she went on the overnight dates she realized that she was "already in love" with both Jesse and Jason. ... If you actually name two guys in this regard, I don't see how the "we just knew" scenario plays out. ... I've had feelings for two guys at once, and I've also had the "we just knew" situation. And I really can't imagine them being combined. That sounds like she "just knew" with two people at once (and not early on in her relationship with them, either, but after some time, which also doesn't seem like "just knew" to me, either), and then, about a week later, realized that, no, she really "just knew" with one of them and was so sure about it that she could get engaged to him while her "just knew" with the other had already evaporated. I just don't see it, especially since I haven't seen any actual major chemistry between DeAnna and either Jesse or Jason., only liking and affection, mainly ... Now, Meredith and Ian, yeah, that was a "just knew" situation, I think. But this one -- it just doesn't look that way to me. I'm not saying she can't be in love with either Jesse or Jason. But I just don't think that this was one of those lightning-bolt, big-immediate-click loves, if it is a love. She's articulated too many different feelings in the course of the series for that, if you ask me.

07-04-2008, 10:32 PM	#118
TwinCity FORT Regular Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 67	Re: Jesse - Bachelorette 4 have you noticed how she always says Jason first.... then adds Jesse, like she is trying to keep it even.

07-05-2008, 01:02 AM	#119
tawneej TEAM CSINCSAK Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Eastern NC Posts: 93	Re: Jesse - Bachelorette 4 I was looking back through posts Ron (thesherriff) made, and thought this was an interesting comment he made after watching the episode with Jesse and De's one-on-one Natasha Beddingfield date: "I really liked her edit though... and thought she was very personable on her date with Jesse, she sort of changed into this person that was inspiring to watch. That relationship is beginning to intrigue me."

07-05-2008, 01:25 PM	#120
Julz FORT Regular Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 83	Re: Jesse - Bachelorette 4 Is it Monday YET???? The suspense is killing me!!!! I want Jesse to be F1 and it is scary because it never works out the way I want it too... I would be grumpy and moody too, if I had to sit back and watch the show without being able to say a word about it. Not being able to defend myself, explain how things [i]really[i] went down, etc... I'm pulling for ya Jesse!!! Good Luck!!! __________________ I can't frown when I see you smile.