Graham - Bachelorette 4

[ilovemick]

Love or a relationship is never easy!

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[Parasolpink]

I find the diversity in whom we find attractive so darn fascinating! Our love maps, including Miss Dee's, are drawn when we are young. So we always make a beeline for the type that attracts us and hope what's in the package is a good fit for us. Where the trouble lies, is that some among us will waste precious time and energy trying to mix oil and water. You know those of us who want to foolishly change a man or hope that certain things will change once insert item of choice here. I see this dynamic between Graham and Dee. "If I could just get him to open up". Well girl, it's his responsibility to do so not your personal project! Cultivate what you can with those that are into you from the get go! And get some glasses to better read the writing on the wall! LOL! It is what it is! PS Relationships ought not to be that hard gets my vote.

[ilovemick]

I think trying to find love or a relationship like this is hard and complicated. Not many people in the real world date someone who is also dating others and have to watch it!!!!!

[krista000]

Originally Posted by Parasolpink

I find the diversity in whom we find attractive so darn fascinating! Our love maps, including Miss Dee's, are drawn when we are young. So we always make a beeline for the type that attracts us and hope what's in the package is a good fit for us. Where the trouble lies, is that some among us will waste precious time and energy trying to mix oil and water. You know those of us who want to foolishly change a man or hope that certain things will change once insert item of choice here. I see this dynamic between Graham and Dee. "If I could just get him to open up". Well girl, it's his responsibility to do so not your personal project! Cultivate what you can with those that are into you from the get go! And get some glasses to better read the writing on the wall! LOL! It is what it is! PS Relationships ought not to be that hard gets my vote.

I agree. I can't understand why she is not trying to build a relationship with other guys that are into her and she is waisting her time trying to figure out Graham.

[Polynesian Girl]

Hey Graham...

What would you do if De chooses someone over you but realized she made a mistake. Would you give her a 2nd chance?

[sashy]

I ditto that, he is soo fat!!!

[stacerace]

Originally Posted by sashy

I ditto that, he is soo fat!!!

Fat Not sure what you mean...

[hotlanta babe]

Originally Posted by sashy

I ditto that, he is soo fat!!!

Phat = An adjective mainly used decreasingly in pop culture to express approval.
from wikipedia

Usually meant to describe women as it may be an acronym for "Pretty, Hot, and Tempting"

[stacerace]

Originally Posted by hotlanta babe

Phat = An adjective mainly used decreasingly in pop culture to express approval.
from wikipedia

Usually meant to describe women as it may be an acronym for "Pretty, Hot, and Tempting"

I see. I actually know hat expression. It's the spelling that confused me

[dream fan]

Originally Posted by ilovemick

I liked Ian but knew he would break Meredith's heart. I love Graham and I soooooo see the connection those two have. I don't know if he would break her heart or not. I just want one of them to say to the other I want you, I have to go through this process, but you are the one I want. I feel that is why there is so much tension between them, they are definitely feeling it but afraid to get their hearts broken. Be vulnerable, take a leap.

This is what I want for them, too! They are great together. But, I do see how by Graham holding back he's not laying it all out there, and that is problematic in this type of situation.