Graham - Bachelorette 4

[bee stung lips]

Still not feelin' him.

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[angelic_one2002]

Originally Posted by bee stung lips

Reminds me far too much of Ian from Meredith's season and I didn't care for him at all.

I didn't care for Ian, either... Way too aloof acting.

[albean99]

Graham does remind me of Ian which is fine with me because Ian is my favorite ever bachelor. There's something about Graham that I really like and can completely understand why DeAnna is so attracted to him.

[aname2]

Originally Posted by Toughness

Am I the only one who thinks Graham is the hottest bachelor to ever be on the any of the seasons. I just LOVE his personality. his voice and everything that comes out of his mouth is so sexy.

However I dont' think he's the right guy for DeAnna. I know he says he cares for her but I just get the feeling he is in no way "falling in love" with her. If she's smart she will pick someone like Jeremy.

I agree he seems "lost" sometimes. He's hot but definitely not marriage material for a girl like DeAnna. I think Graham prob has dated a lot of beautiful attractive women and DeAnna is nothing special...DeAnna is pretty but she has personality issues.

Your post is interesting. I agree and disagree for different reasons. I totally agree with your second paragraph and most of the third. Where I disagree is in his degree of "hotness". I don't find him at all attractive. He has a pretty body (a little too rangy for my tastes though). But his face with the scruffy beard, small head, and awful haircut is just not sexy to me. However, having read about Deanna's physical type, he seems to fit the bill more than any of the others. I definitely do not see a love connection between these two. He seems very immature, flighty and not ready to commit. She should stop trying to read the Book of Graham and put him back on the shelf.

[jelle]

Originally Posted by aname2

Your post is interesting. I agree and disagree for different reasons. I totally agree with your second paragraph and most of the third. Where I disagree is in his degree of "hotness". I don't find him at all attractive. He has a pretty body (a little too rangy for my tastes though). But his face with the scruffy beard, small head, and awful haircut is just not sexy to me. However, having read about Deanna's physical type, he seems to fit the bill more than any of the others. I definitely do not see a love connection between these two. He seems very immature, flighty and not ready to commit. She should stop trying to read the Book of Graham and put him back on the shelf.

I like this guy really, really, like him. Not for Deanna I just like him

He seems to fit her requirements or type and SHE is obviously attracted, but I think she is fooling herself that he will perform as she wants him to. I don't think he is either immature or flighty, but I am sure he is not feeling any connection with Deanna. I wonder how he was convinced to go on the show. It seems like an odd venue for him, and I don't think that the editors will treat him kindly.

This is a guy I would like to know. I bet he is a great friend.

[pminn1608]

Originally Posted by jelle

I like this guy really, really, like him. Not for Deanna I just like him

He seems to fit her requirements or type and SHE is obviously attracted, but I think she is fooling herself that he will perform as she wants him to. I don't think he is either immature or flighty, but I am sure he is not feeling any connection with Deanna. I wonder how he was convinced to go on the show. It seems like an odd venue for him, and I don't think that the editors will treat him kindly.

This is a guy I would like to know. I bet he is a great friend.

ITA with your thoughts on this one Jelle. He is attractive, educated, has traveled had an awesome career and is obviously very motivated to pursue new advenstures. Graham does not appear to be interested in Deanna in any of the documentation we have been given to date. I agree he would be someone interesting to sit down with and have a drink and just chat.

[sueb1961]

Originally Posted by pminn1608

ITA with your thoughts on this one Jelle. He is attractive, educated, has traveled had an awesome career and is obviously very motivated to pursue new advenstures. Graham does not appear to be interested in Deanna in any of the documentation we have been given to date. I agree he would be someone interesting to sit down with and have a drink and just chat.

I agree pminn and jelle. I like him also. I don't think he is into her at all. Can't really say I blame him.

[anxieuse]

Originally Posted by albean99

Graham does remind me of Ian which is fine with me because Ian is my favorite ever bachelor. There's something about Graham that I really like and can completely understand why DeAnna is so attracted to him.

Albean, I have read your posts and am wandering if you are my lost twin!!!

I L O V E (as Ian would say) you posts. Are you reading my mind? I feel exactly the way you do towards Graham and Ian. Just like you, to me, Ian is by far the best suitor that I have seen and Graham comes a very close second. He is so endearing and true. Love him for that.

[ilovemick]

I liked Ian but knew he would break Meredith's heart. I love Graham and I soooooo see the connection those two have. I don't know if he would break her heart or not. I just want one of them to say to the other I want you, I have to go through this process, but you are the one I want. I feel that is why there is so much tension between them, they are definitely feeling it but afraid to get their hearts broken. Be vulnerable, take a leap.

[palmasola]

Love or a relationship should be easier than that!