Bachelorette 4 Media thread

[fan*addict]

Originally Posted by Estella

Interesting that you mention Andy and Tessa. I just said to a friend the other day that with those two, I felt like their relationship had already cooled down at the ATFR and their post show interviews. With DeAnna and Jesse, I feel like their relationship has really grown over the last two months, and that says a lot considering that they didn't see each other as much as you'd like to at the beginning of a relationship.

And I do believe that is something even DeAnna said...(I will paraphrase)..that through the process she changed...what she wanted changed as well as who she "thought" she was...

I think that it a strong and confident person to say that about ones self....

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[girlsmom]

I never agreed with a single custodial dad leaving his son to go on the show,but I'm obviously in the vast minority. My feeling is that IF one assumes, which I don't, that the chooser can actually emerge from this trainwreck still looking like a good guy that Jason would be the guy to do it. I'd actually watch the trainwreck, which I've only very sparingly been doing, to see how he pulls off the hat trick of finding his true love and not looking like total jerk. I don't think it can be done, but I'd like to see him try.

[StanleyCupCanes]

Check out the Seattle PI article "Women demand jilted 'Bachelorette' suitor Mesnick's phone number"..they are harassing the reporter that interviewed him earlier in the week for his contact info. He's gonna need a bodyguard and a screener soon..lol

[abbyb1]

Originally Posted by fan*addict

And I do believe that is something even DeAnna said...(I will paraphrase)..that through the process she changed...what she wanted changed as well as who she "thought" she was...

I think that it a strong and confident person to say that about ones self....

I agree that her saying this involves a certain amount of introspection, but can't one argue that she could just as easily change once again and realize that this isn't what she wants at all?

In all honesty, in a situation whereby someone changes his/her priorities so vastly, the best choice for her would have been to choose neither of them. It certainly would have been the most honest option anyway. If she's at a point where incredible personal change is happening within the span of 6 weeks, then she's not ready to commit to anyone (other than herself) and she definitely isn't in a place where she should be planning a wedding.

[cupcakes]

Originally Posted by StanleyCupCanes

Check out the Seattle PI article "Women demand jilted 'Bachelorette' suitor Mesnick's phone number"..they are harassing the reporter that interviewed him earlier in the week for his contact info. He's gonna need a bodyguard and a screener soon..lol

I saw that this morning! They even have craiglist ads asking where to locate Jason, Jeremy and Graham. I wonder how these guys deal with all this attention?

[KashatheDiva]

Originally Posted by cupcakes

I saw that this morning! They even have craiglist ads asking where to locate Jason, Jeremy and Graham. I wonder how these guys deal with all this attention?

Bodyguards or body odor.

[Squaredpants]

Originally Posted by cupcakes

I saw that this morning! They even have craiglist ads asking where to locate Jason, Jeremy and Graham. I wonder how these guys deal with all this attention?

They so will not need "the Bachelor" to find the "Woman of Their Dreams". They already have them coming out of the woodwork so to speak. How to deal with all this I'd hire that bodyguard someone mentioned.

[StanleyCupCanes]

Originally Posted by cupcakes

I saw that this morning! They even have craiglist ads asking where to locate Jason, Jeremy and Graham. I wonder how these guys deal with all this attention?

Isn't it funny how it all played out? I don't think they'll be looking back and wondering what if at all. The cream rises to the top!

[girlsmom]

Originally Posted by Squaredpants

They so will not need "the Bachelor" to find the "Woman of Their Dreams". They already have them coming out of the woodwork so to speak. How to deal with all this I'd hire that bodyguard someone mentioned.

The problem is too that all these rabid women THINK they know the real person, but don't really. Jason has been built up as SO supposedly perfect how can anyone live up to that? I think in the past the eventual mates of the candidates usually never saw the show or knew who they were.

[StanleyCupCanes]

Originally Posted by girlsmom

The problem is too that all these rabid women THINK they know the real person, but don't really. Jason has been built up as SO supposedly perfect how can anyone live up to that? I think in the past the eventual mates of the candidates usually never saw the show or knew who they were.

You're probably right but it's good for their ego to get some validation after what transpired on the show. I say good for them.

The PR irony of the outcome is rich to me. As we predicted, these guys made the show and post-show are even more adored than before. The original star - not so much.