Bachelorette 4 Media thread

[angelic_one2002]

Originally Posted by girlsmom

Remember this is a girl who said that Jeremy was perfect. He was crazy about her, perfect and oops she dumped him.

I can't get past that a clue like her saying "I wouldn't trade (Jason) for anything. ." is NOT a clue, it's a way of talking and is meant to deceive. Had she picked him this would be giving away too much, imo.

Im thinking the same thing. That comment was too obvious...throw us off, perhaps?

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[BachNoFoolMe]

Originally Posted by girlsmom

Remember this is a girl who said that Jeremy was perfect. He was crazy about her, perfect and oops she dumped him.

I can't get past that a clue like her saying "I wouldn't trade (Jason) for anything. ." is NOT a clue, it's a way of talking and is meant to deceive. Had she picked him this would be giving away too much, imo.

But she also in that comment about Jeremy gave us the warning that on paper blah blah blah. So you knew she was questioning picking him.

[Writerinthewind]

The quotes we've heard from Deanna about a heartwarming ending just doesn't ring true if she picks Jesse.

Heartwarming with Jason and Ty, yes.

Jesse really "grew" on me the last couple of episodes. I was a die hard Graham fan who woke up to the reality they weren't right for each other.

So, I have not been that invested on who she picks as long as it floats HER boat, I guess.

[girlsmom]

Originally Posted by BachNoFoolMe

But she also in that comment about Jeremy gave us the warning that on paper blah blah blah. So you knew she was questioning picking him.

That's why I think she used this same thing with Jason. "Jason is wonderful and I fell in love with someone else" are two perfectly compatible statements in her world. It's always a red light when the chooser makes such obvious statements about one of the f2. just sayin' it doesn't sit well and it sure is not meant to be a clue, imo. It's not like D has free will to tell us how she really feels.

[Vet_Tech]

I was ROTF when my sister told me this...."If she doesn't pick Jason, I'm going to make a youtube video with the song "Stupid Girl"

[skylighter]

Originally Posted by ducky2

I think because of all of the g/f hoopla (none of us know the real story), people are not giving this guy a chance.

I was a part of the chorus that kept singing the refrain "WTF?!?" when we saw pictures of what Jesse was wearing at the Meet and Greet party. The girlfriend rumor and promotion drama also gave me pause. But I really grew to like his edit as the season wore on. I liked the friendship that he and De seemed to be developing. I enjoyed watching them laugh and have a good time. It wasn't until this past Monday's episode that I started to see the phoniness and contrived behavior in Jesse that other posters had pointed out during most of the season. I'm still not sure if that is because I missed it before or if the producers were just being heavy-handed and planting the seeds of doubt to prepare for next week. But, all in all, I did like Jesse. Just not as the F1 for De based on what she said she was looking for (long-term) and based on what I saw in her interactions with Jason. As I posted elsewhere, "if" (and that is the biggest "if" that ever "if"-ed) she picked Jesse, I will wish them well as I don't believe in trying to block other people's blessings. But I sure as heck won't understand it.

[4health]

Ok, I was a big Jeremy fan but knowing he was leaving F3 helped me watch with different eyes. I started to see the story unfold with Jesse at his HTD...I started to like him and DeAnna together. I never had strong feelings toward Jason.....I just was turned off from day one. I don't know why, I don't want to say anything bad about Jason but I can make a list of things why I didn't see him as F1. I kept waiting to be in Jason's corner after knowing Jeremy leaves but never could.

I just read DeAnna's interview at reality tv when she talks about each one of the F2 and about wedding plans. I think she states something that I feel gives it away. Jesse HTD: "WOW, I cannot live without this person in my life." also, she said that Jesse will always put me 1st in his life. Then when she talks about the wedding she uses the word "ridiculous" (does that sound familiar) I don't think I ever heard her say that during the season.

That is what Jeremy talked about in his interview when he said "Jesse F1". Just some things to think about. If you haven't read that interview it is interesting.

[BachNoFoolMe]

Originally Posted by 4health

Ok, I was a big Jeremy fan but knowing he was leaving F3 helped me watch with different eyes. I started to see the story unfold with Jesse at his HTD...I started to like him and DeAnna together. I never had strong feelings toward Jason.....I just was turned off from day one. I don't know why, I don't want to say anything bad about Jason but I can make a list of things why I didn't see him as F1. I kept waiting to be in Jason's corner after knowing Jeremy leaves but never could.

I just read DeAnna's interview at reality tv when she talks about each one of the F2 and about wedding plans. I think she states something that I feel gives it away. Jesse HTD: "WOW, I cannot live without this person in my life." also, she said that Jesse will always put me 1st in his life. Then when she talks about the wedding she uses the word "ridiculous" (does that sound familiar) I don't think I ever heard her say that during the season.

That is what Jeremy talked about in his interview when he said "Jesse F1". Just some things to think about. If you haven't read that interview it is interesting.

& in one interview done this week about Jason she said...."One is a single dad…who I would not trade anything in the world for.” Now she can't live with two people?

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I don't think we can take anything from the interviews.

[shoepie]

Originally Posted by girlsmom

Remember this is a girl who said that Jeremy was perfect. He was crazy about her, perfect and oops she dumped him.

I can't get past that a clue like her saying "I wouldn't trade (Jason) for anything. ." is NOT a clue, it's a way of talking and is meant to deceive. Had she picked him this would be giving away too much, imo.

I don't think her statements are calculated to deceive. I think she overstates things most of the time. How many times did her heart get broken? She gushes about the men in order to give equal lip service. Each phrase in and of itself means nothing really. She talked about all the F3 favorably and seriously. Remember, she had a bond with Jeremy that she shared with no other man ever in her life because his parents died. She also had that same bond with Jason the night he asked her about her mother. That is the way the game goes, it is part of the rules.