Bachelorette 4 Media thread - Page 245

Cailg · 06-29-2008, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by albean99

I found the video interesting because there was a lot of emphasis on her saying that she thought she was falling in love with Graham instead of saying she fell in love but it appears that she did say it. She also said that she thought he'd be the f1 standing at the end. It's hard to see where that makes room for her real f1 to be first choice. I'm also wondering why in the world they'd edit the show the way they did if there's an actual engagement? I have no problem if DeAnna does end up happy in the end because I'm not sure she was the right one for Graham and vice versa but am wondering how it happens so soon after the things she says about Graham going home.

My concern as well, albean.

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Cailg · 06-29-2008, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by thethreej's

I agree, concentrate on what you do have, not what you dont.

I was surprised at how much De spoke about Brad. I get that his rejection impacted her, but even Graham said she spoke to him a lot about Brad. I am still concerned that even if you put her feelings for Graham aside, she is still too hurt by what happened with Brad to move on. I could be totally wrong, but it is just my concern.

althea3333 · 06-29-2008, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Jasmine305

There is a cute commerical up on tv.msn of Jesse and DeAnna on their horseback riding date. I don't think I am allowed to post the link or I would.

Thanks, it is a cute video!

ilovemick · 06-29-2008, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by albean99

I found the video interesting because there was a lot of emphasis on her saying that she thought she was falling in love with Graham instead of saying she fell in love but it appears that she did say it. She also said that she thought he'd be the f1 standing at the end. It's hard to see where that makes room for her real f1 to be first choice. I'm also wondering why in the world they'd edit the show the way they did if there's an actual engagement? I have no problem if DeAnna does end up happy in the end because I'm not sure she was the right one for Graham and vice versa but am wondering how it happens so soon after the things she says about Graham going home.

I so totally agree!!! There is no way if I were dating two people and said all the things she did to Graham that I could turn around in two weeks and be totally in love with someone else. I don't believe you can be "in love" with two people at the same time. This is just my opinion BUT I think she is "in love" with Graham and "loves" Jason. She went with her head and not her heart, which is okay.

Bloomers · 06-29-2008, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Cailg

I was surprised at how much De spoke about Brad. I get that his rejection impacted her, but even Graham said she spoke to him a lot about Brad. I am still concerned that even if you put her feelings for Graham aside, she is still too hurt by what happened with Brad to move on. I could be totally wrong, but it is just my concern.

If she does get engaged, it will have been close to 8 weeks after the FRC. All of that stuff with Graham is moot. It is over!!

If she doesn't get engaged, and they don't make it, then maybe there is something, but let's see what happens with the next few episodes.

There is plenty of time after the FRC to go back and pick all of this stuff apart again if they aren't together, but the edit and the publicity as of right now looks like they may be trying to tell us that she moved on from both Brad and Graham as hard as it may be for some people to believe.

mommyluvsnoah · 06-29-2008, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by ilovemick

I so totally agree!!! There is no way if I were dating two people and said all the things she did to Graham that I could turn around in two weeks and be totally in love with someone else. I don't believe you can be "in love" with two people at the same time. This is just my opinion BUT I think she is "in love" with Graham and "loves" Jason. She went with her head and not her heart, which is okay.

Or maybe as she falls in love with Jason she realizes that she didn't really love Graham but thought she did. Sometimes when you fall in love for real you realize that a previous "love" wasn't really that afterall.

I don't know. Just throwing that out there for food for thought. I see the connection between her and Graham and I see the connection between her and Jason. They are both real IMO but very different. I guess only she will know in the end which one turned out to be the "real thing".

Calypso · 06-29-2008, 12:47 PM

I am so happy with this news! Go DeJay! About Graham, I think it is entirely possible that he knew of the connection between DeAnna and Jason and that's what had him running hot and cold. He said that we hadn't seen all of DeAnna's edit and wasn't it rumored that she supposedly told Graham something which could explain those hot and cold feelings on his part, the reluctance to kiss her and so forth? If he did witness interactions between De and Jason then this would explain him saying that he couldn't ever see himself falling in love with her and wanting to leave the show. Regardless, he's gone now, whatever was there is over and done with, and now it's time for DeAnna's happy ending.

shellys · 06-29-2008, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Bloomers

If she does get engaged, it will have been close to 8 weeks after the FRC. All of that stuff with Graham is moot. It is over!!

If she doesn't get engaged, and they don't make it, then maybe there is something, but let's see what happens with the next few episodes.

There is plenty of time after the FRC to go back and pick all of this stuff apart again if they aren't together, but the edit and the publicity as of right now looks like they may be trying to tell us that she moved on from both Brad and Graham as hard as it may be for some people to believe.

Oh but wait..how could they have a special show on the Engagement party when they've barely spoke since filming ended??? !!!!

Maybe that was bad information??

Go DeeJay!!!!

talldede · 06-29-2008, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by shellys

Oh but wait..how could they have a special show on the Engagement party when they've barely spoke since filming ended??? !!!!

Maybe that was bad information??

Go DeeJay!!!!

BAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!! Too funny!

srkfan · 06-29-2008, 12:52 PM

About letting Brad go, I agree, but it seems to be the first thing every interview with her is about, all the post-show interviews I've seen. It's constantly brought up to her, and I get it, because that's part of her story. And I'm thinking Fleiss is loving bringing it up because it brings to the forefront how "they" transformed a heartbreak story into the woman finding the man of her dreams. That's the point for the show. I'm sure it will always be the first thing brought up in future shows.

06-29-2008, 12:47 PM	#2447
Calypso FORT Fan Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 341	Re: Bachelorette 4 Media thread I am so happy with this news! Go DeJay! About Graham, I think it is entirely possible that he knew of the connection between DeAnna and Jason and that's what had him running hot and cold. He said that we hadn't seen all of DeAnna's edit and wasn't it rumored that she supposedly told Graham something which could explain those hot and cold feelings on his part, the reluctance to kiss her and so forth? If he did witness interactions between De and Jason then this would explain him saying that he couldn't ever see himself falling in love with her and wanting to leave the show. Regardless, he's gone now, whatever was there is over and done with, and now it's time for DeAnna's happy ending.

06-29-2008, 12:52 PM	#2450
srkfan FORT Newbie Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 30	Re: Bachelorette 4 Media thread About letting Brad go, I agree, but it seems to be the first thing every interview with her is about, all the post-show interviews I've seen. It's constantly brought up to her, and I get it, because that's part of her story. And I'm thinking Fleiss is loving bringing it up because it brings to the forefront how "they" transformed a heartbreak story into the woman finding the man of her dreams. That's the point for the show. I'm sure it will always be the first thing brought up in future shows.