Talking about rings isn't negative. It's sometimes just what is girls do and frankly, it's a pretty tame topic.
I can't remember the one Kip picked. If was was the square one it was pretty. I like the round diamond in the center flanked by baguettes or the round one in center surrounded by diamonds around it and a diamond band. The latter prob costs a fortune but the pic I saw of one was beautiful. I also like the princess cuts.