I posted this in the Reid thread but meant to post it here since it would go in this episode (wait, maybe it's in episode 8...who knows, I can't keep track).
With all the SC confusion over who is F3, F2, etc., here is one way to look at it. I know voice overs are often mixed in over scenes not related in previews, but we know that Jilly has a sit down conversation with CH at F3 ceremony where the issue of no or lack of connection / intimacy / romance / closeness comes up. You can tell because she's in that dress and appears to be very upset. Therefore, the reason she gets rid of F3 is for that reason. Thus, you can look at SC of HI to see which of the 3 appear not to have that problem w/ her and therefore you can eliminate them from being the F3. Unless something happens between the bathtub scene w/ Reid w/ the flowers and candles (which I'm guessing would be at the very end of the date regardless if it was FD or LCD), he can't be the one eliminated at F3. They seem to be very connected and it's not like it's early on in their date (since I assume they are "retreating" for the night) that it would change.
The dismount guy was the one who I thought would go at F3 but that was before they showed the massage SC. I just thought he appeared dead to me before those SC. I don't know if we agreed if that was Kip or Ed, but the other one (guy closing door) looks like Kip because he roles his shirt sleeves up like that. So, I'm guessing dismount guy is Ed. I think Kip is the one w/ the "problem" and she is so upset because she had that physical connection with him, but in the end lets him go. I think he is the one that comes back and proposes. Thus Ed / Reid is F2.