I'm mostly a lurker here, but I completely agree with you on this about Ed, Reid and Kip. I think Reid is a cutie, but I've yet to see sparks. I do not think Kip is as invested or if there is more than a physical connection. Personally, I relate to Ed the most and I wouldn't mind being in Jillian's shoes in meeting him.

I do not get the Ed hate, either.
Yes, please God, not Wes. I do wish they would show more of the strong, independent Jillian the audience fell in love with on The Bachelor.
This is only my third season of this franchise, and I may never watch again...unless I finally see a true, happy ending. I blame feeling for fellow Georgia gal DeAnna into getting me into this season. It's been a domino effect from then to now.
I am going to go along with those who feel what Jillian means is that the last five minutes made the whole show worth it, in that she found the person for her. As for the twist...at this point, who knows?! Maybe it is something that has already been discovered via sleuthing but is not known to the general public? I dunno, I'm just hoping for a happy, decent ending.