Bachelorette 5 Thoughts and Comments

[Lily'sMom]

Not in my world. My hubby and I said it about the same time into our relationship and.... still very happily married 19 years later.

Mine too....My husband told me after 2 weeks that he was falling in love with me

[Jagfan]

Hmm, don't know about this one. Let me know what you come up with after your next batch of kool aid.

After rejecting Reid at F3 then being with Kip and Ed, how does she come back to wanting to be with Reid again?? I can't connect those dots. If she let go the person she supposedly loved at F3 then why'd she move on with the other two. Sounds like someone who doesn't really know what she wants.

Yep, it sure does. Her hormones are running her ragged.

Eddy boy gave her the reassurance he knew she WANTED to hear. He seems to be good at reading her needs, especially in the bedoom.

I hope for his sake, Reid stays far, far away from her. She doesn't seem to be ready for a grown up relationship with a nice guy.

[Luvvy]

I feel like it's the part in a scary movie when you see the girl go down in the basement and the killer is lurking there. You're watching it, saying, don't go down there! Run! Run! But they do it anyway. That's what Ed with Jillian kind of feels like.

OMG, BF...nooo! Do you really think Ed reminds you of a killer in some sort of horror flick?! Say it aint so.

I think that's a stretch, but hey, if that's how you feel...

[JillyAnn]

Newb to posting, but I've been reading pretty much every post

Question regarding her night with Ed though- Maybe this is a stupid point, but I don't get why The Bachelorette totally ignores the next morning! Sure, Ed was tired, sunburned, emotionally exhausted, whatever. But I don't get why if "something" happened, it had to be that night in the FS. Could they not have spent a nice night cuddling/sleeping and been more physical in the morning? Or are they forced apart the second they wake up? Do their dates end as soon as they fall asleep? Do they not wake up next to each other and have a new opportunity to be intimate? It seems like this show totally ignores the possibility of something happening the morning after the date. If they were THAT into each other and absolutely couldn't make "it" happen that night, they most certainly could have had that physical connection after a little bit of rest! (Though maybe they did, and it was just edited to look like nothing happened at all...)

I just don't buy that if they are falling that hard for each other, and THAT sexually attracted to each other, they wouldn't be ready to give it another go Crossing my fingers that she is just not that into him... (and that Reid comes back and sweeps her off her feet!)

[lofflytime]

I feel like it's the part in a scary movie when you see the girl go down in the basement and the killer is lurking there. You're watching it, saying, don't go down there! Run! Run! But they do it anyway. That's what Ed with Jillian kind of feels like.

ahahahahahahahaha yes, that is what it feels like

[Kino Bay]

Maybe if or when she signed Ed up for the show she was expecting Melissa?

100's of pages later, I'm responding. Lots to read! However, I believe that the first 25 men were selected for Melissa. That is why they brought 5 more men in at the MNG. Those were supposedly selected for Jillian. Remember, they had limited time to they throw this bachelorette together, they could not have screened all those men after they chose Jillian. I believe that Reid and Ed were from those final 5.

[Luvvy]

ITA Luvvy

I've always enjoyed reading everyone's thoughts and comments, however I feel this is getting way out of control with personal attacks on real human beings. Uncalled for, IMO.

Well I'd say we are two peas in a pod of pumpkins! Glad I'm not alone in this thinking.

[Jagfan]

They sat on the beach and he read the card. Jillian pulled it from her skirt I think . You really have to watch it then you may change your opinion. I often find it difficult to comment on things I haven't seen.

True. I didn't catch the whole train wreck of an eppy. That's why I asked if it happened. Thanks for letting me know there was an invite and not just a sprint for the FS.

[1blue1pink]

Hmm, don't know about this one. Let me know what you come up with after your next batch of kool aid.

After rejecting Reid at F3 then being with Kip and Ed, how does she come back to wanting to be with Reid again?? I can't connect those dots. If she let go the person she supposedly loved at F3 then why'd she move on with the other two. Sounds like someone who doesn't really know what she wants.

Ask Jason....he seemed to go back to his F2 after he was so sad to let the F2 girl go. Now Jillian was extremely sad to let her F3 go....sounds familiar.

[Roseio]

IMO sexuality issues abound. Perhaps we have to give credit to Jillian for seeing them for what they are. I think Reid is fantastic and a great guy but I also do not really think he is ready to commit to any woman now-something just seems off-maybe the editing as it is very off-putting this year. Ed's so called failure to launch was so obviously scripted down to the light going back on and cameras ready to catch that. Hah! Methinks something is rotten in Denmark(Hawaii)-perhaps the script! The producers are way overthinking what will appeal to the viewers and this simply is not it-reality TV has never been so unreal.