You know what is absolutely hysterical? Posters read a post that says, "Maybe this happened...", then it gets repeated as, "Did this happen? Where did you see it?", then finally posts stated as fact, "I read that this happened" (funny

, it was just a couple of pages earlier, and it was unsubstantiated)

(where does it factually state that 1. Ed has a girlfriend or 2. the girlfriend was invited to AFTR and declined)
I agree with footballmom - these are people, real people, on this show, and the bashing and unfair characterizations are really cruel. They aren't actors (although some of the editing makes it seem as though they are horrific actors). The bashing is ridiculous! For 1 thing - none of you actually KNOW anything about these people other than what the editors have chosen to show you; for another - the time (what little of it there is) that Jillian has had with these guys is either chopped and diced into drama (thanks to the poster who verbalized the whole Ed & Jillian FS issue of hopping all around the suite in various arrangements of clothing and lighting) or NOT SHOWN.
I also agree with the poster who said that until the mainstream media substantiates the rumors, it is just a bunch of rumor and innuendo and not fact.
None of us truly know where Jillian's heart lies. And, I for one, hope that she is happy with whoever she chose.
Lastly, the emotional investment some are showing as to the fortunes of their "favorites" is pathetic! The show is over, Jillian has made her choice, no amount of name calling is going to change the results. :nono