Thoughts and Comments in General #3 **Spoilers** Bachelorette 4

[chrisg]

Originally Posted by blue valentine

The thing is DeAnna is a proud woman, very stubborn and it doesn't matter if the general public wouldn't know about Jesse's gf/endorsement issues, she would know and she knows that even a small portion of the viewing public would know. I think thats enough to turn her off from choosing Jesse as her default. You also have to remember she didn't find out about Jesse until the f2 so by that time she had already gotten rid of Jeremy and Graham was gone as well.

Jeremy, he would want to get married and thats the problem. I think she genuinely didn't want to lead him on and knew he was too intense. I'm sure it was stressful dealing with him during the six weeks, now imagine leading him on even more and letting him think they would get married post show.

I think Graham's departure really messed up her plans and her "happy ending", and I don't necessarily mean she was going to pick him but with his leaving at f4 it really messed up her order and how she was going to get rid of the guys.

With Jason's he has a kid to worry about and is mature enough to deal with things not working out. I think there are some definite plans for him to become one of the next Bachelors.

Blue Valentine, Why are you crushing all of my idealistic dreams? What are you going to tell me next: there is no Santa Claus, no Easter Bunny and Hillary Clinton has to be the VP on our ticket for CHANGE we can believe in?

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[BachelorOCD]

Maybe i missed this somewhere earlier in the thread. But does anyone have a theory on why Jason acknowledged at least twice on his HTD that he had had a terrible morning, and that something had gone very wrong? Even Ty knew that Daddy had been sad. The edit took special care to make sure we knew this. Why?

[nuthinsayzluvin]

Originally Posted by Popeyesgal

I for one never saw the sparks between Graham and De. I saw that she wanted him but never really felt that he was into her. I believe for her it was lust, and for him even that wasn't there. I never saw a connection with them other than the warmies on her part. Even on their one-on-one it was obvious that he just wasn't reciprocating what she was feeling.

I guess I wasn't in the line up when they were handing out the rules of engagement.
I'm all about the lust Just go with it.

[talldede]

Originally Posted by chrisg

Blue Valentine, Why are you crushing all of my idealistic dreams? What are you going to tell me next: there is no Santa Claus, no Easter Bunny and Hillary Clinton has to be the VP on our ticket for CHANGE we can believe in?

LOL!!!! We have optimists and realists on this board, we are pretty evenly matched too.

I want my love story!!!!!

[dodie430]

Originally Posted by Phyllie

chrisg...I'm still not totally convinced she DOESN'T choose Jesse. However, if she wanted to chose Graham, like she said, but was afraid of being rejected ala Brad, I think her reasoning on choosing Jason would be fairly simple.

I think saying that the only reason she kicked Graham to the curb was because she didn't want a "Brad ending", doesn't quite present the whole picture. There were other, more earnest, reasons that were quite evident, in my opinion.

[nuthinsayzluvin]

Originally Posted by DeAnna fan

How dare people on the alphabet message boards say that Jason is a bad father

save yourself the aggravation...jerk off central over there

[nuthinsayzluvin]

Originally Posted by Popeyesgal

I for one never saw the sparks between Graham and De. I saw that she wanted him but never really felt that he was into her. I believe for her it was lust, and for him even that wasn't there. I never saw a connection with them other than the warmies on her part. Even on their one-on-one it was obvious that he just wasn't reciprocating what she was feeling.

oh oh ... sexual innuendo
... and I think I saw "sucked the life out of him "about 3 times in one post
if subtlety is an art form somebody is still using fingerpaints
" warmies " now is it ... where'd the "butterflies" go

[DeAnna fan]

Originally Posted by nuthinsayzluvin

save yourself the aggravation...jerk off central over there

Yeah, I agree. Now they are saying that the pics of Jesse in the limo is fake and photoshopped because they got it from here and are saying that Jason and Ty are in there. Wow.

[toointothis]

It's funny how Graham mentions that the editing of DeAnna was not quite right. I think we are seeing some of her attitude that may have been edited out during the season show up on the Men Tell All show. She is very disrespectful to Graham on the previews.

I am a Graham fan, but he really should not have gone on a show that required him to be ready to get engaged in 6 weeks, if he new he doesn't move that fast with his feelings. And if the studio was really after him to come on the show, shame on them. They wanted this curve ball for DeAnna. They know she is totally ready to get married. When they did the interviews with Graham before they selected him, I'm sure they knew he had only been in one 5 month long relationship. Come on, would this really be a good bachelor for DeAnna? Though they act like they are trying so hard to help her. Gimme a break!

[Desstiny]

Originally Posted by DeAnna fan

Yeah, I agree. Now they are saying that the pics of Jesse in the limo is fake and photoshopped because they got it from here and are saying that Jason and Ty are in there. Wow.

Wow....They need to lay off the shrooms ,for real!!