Thoughts and Comments in General #3 **Spoilers** Bachelorette 4

[BachelorOCD]

Originally Posted by Grahamgroupie

He didn't say he wasn't into her. He said he couldn't give her what she wanted, especially in the timeframe of the show. Big difference. He does say that he had strong feelings for her.

But, I really don't care. It's done, it's the horse that's been beaten to death.

Yes, but finally, near the end of the interview, he is asked the most killer, direct question, something to the effect of - if the cameras weren't there, if you had time to get to know her in a normal way, could you have fallen in love with DeAnna? And he answered directly that no, he didn't see himself falling in love with her under any circumstances. I'm not quoting precisely, but his answer was as clear as that.

Which is why she was so hurt, i think. Graham was like Brad, another guy who liked her, had some good times with her, but for whatever reason, couldn't be in love with her.

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[toointothis]

Where can I find the interview everyone is referring too? Also, when I see the show on Monday, was it taped the week after she let Graham go, or is it taped after she has chosen her final guy? I don't remember how it works?

[chrisg]

Originally Posted by Phyllie

I'm just saying that if the show went off the rails, then they would ALL decide together how to proceed. They might not tell her who to pick but they certainly give their input, I can guarantee that.

ETA...I doubt the contract lasts long enough for them to orchestrate the Trista/Ryan kid, but if it did last that long, I'm sure they'd try to get it on tv, and we'd have lots more weddings and stuff from other seasons. haha.

If she had an attraction to, and fun with Jesse, I can see her choosing him because I think she would know he'd be up for the post show media.

Jason, on the other hand, seems her best shot at a happy ending while being understanding enough to deal with the breakup. He's been supportive and comforting to her during the whole process. I might not see the love or passion between them, but I certainly see that.

I agree with Jesse as a fake, EZ dump F1 pick, definitely--as in DeAnna knows she found no one--or her heart can't go on w/out Graham--so she picks him to hang out with for a while rather than being embarrassed by picking no one.

I thought you meant picking Jesse as F1 to have a serious relationship with, though. Do you also mean fake F1? That DeAnna was going to choose Jesse as the fake F1 but the stuff about his gf hit the fan and she was FORCED to choose Jason who she has no feelings for?

B/c if Jesse's a fake F1, who cares if had a girlfriend or not? I don't think the general media cares enough about these Bach shows at this point to attend a press conference held by his former gf so I can't imagine that rumor making it off of these boards and into the general consciousness.

And what was Jason doing at F2 in the first place if she isn't seriously into him? It's WAY too complicated with his son to lead him on. She has to lead some people on--but I agree with MANY other posters on this board--that Jason would be the last on that list b/c she is keenly aware that she is keeping him away from Ty.

If DeAnna did not have genuinely deep romantic feelings for Jason, he would have been gone long ago and either:

Jeremy would be the forced F1 happy ending--She doesn't really have deep romantic feelings for him but is so desperate to be married she is going to go with the sure thing w/regard to marriage. I'm SURE Jeremy would call a preacher on the spot at the FRC and she could have a bunch of babies, be close enough to her family in GA to visit often, no stepmom duty, no ex-wife to deal with and his brothers would be happy that their brother was F1.

or Jesse would be the fake F1 happy ending--My heart can't go on w/out Graham so I'm going to pick this fun guy to hang out w/ for a while and could care less if he just broke up w/ his gf yesterday b/c this whole thing is fake anyway.

Nothing else logically fits. She has a sure thing with regard to marriage (Jeremy) and a non-pick pick (Jesse) left in the mix. What would she get from stringing Jason along that she can't get in an easier, simpler and less heartless way from the other two--even WITH Jesse's gf issue?

[Larel]

Hey guy's any new promo or preview out today?
Also....... is it Monday yet?

[Squaredpants]

Originally Posted by Lynn7

Hmmm...excellent question. While the show may be slightly scripted, with a few retakes here and there, you still can't change your body language (ie: body language doesn't usually lie) unless you are a really great actor (ie: Jamie Foxx in Ray). So, the deafies are able to see beyond the edit, most of the time.

As far as a book goes I have no idea. This has been a learned thing from me since birth and, at the ripe old age of 43 , it's practically seemless for me now.

What I would suggest is that you seek out a book written by a deaf or hard of hearing person. This isn't to say that professional body language readers don't know what they are talking about but sound is a distraction for them in the way that it isn't for deafies. Or, better yet, get a book from both because you'll probably notice differences.



OMG, that would not only be the sweetest thing but it would make me cry and make me swoon.

Thanks for your answer Lynn. I've alot of catching up to do. I just wondered how much it would affect BLF with scripts,re-takes and all I mentioned.

[DeAnna fan]

How dare people on the alphabet message boards say that Jason is a bad father

[seeker]

Can someone post a pic of CH and Jason here side by side? Don't they look like they could be related? Thank you!

[blue valentine]

Originally Posted by chrisg

B/c if Jesse's a fake F1, who cares if had a girlfriend or not? I don't think the general media cares enough about these Bach shows at this point to attend a press conference held by his former gf so I can't imagine that rumor making it off of these boards and into the general consciousness.

And what was Jason doing at F2 in the first place if she isn't seriously into him? It's WAY too complicated with his son to lead him on. She has to lead some people on--but I agree with MANY other posters on this board--that Jason would be the last on that list b/c she is keenly aware that she is keeping him away from Ty.

If DeAnna did not have genuinely deep romantic feelings for Jason, he would have been gone long ago and either:

Jeremy would be the forced F1 happy ending--She doesn't really have deep romantic feelings for him but is so desperate to be married she is going to go with the sure thing w/regard to marriage. I'm SURE Jeremy would call a preacher on the spot at the FRC and she could have a bunch of babies, be close enough to her family in GA to visit often, no stepmom duty, no ex-wife to deal with and his brothers would be happy that their brother was F1.

The thing is DeAnna is a proud woman, very stubborn and it doesn't matter if the general public wouldn't know about Jesse's gf/endorsement issues, she would know and she knows that even a small portion of the viewing public would know. I think thats enough to turn her off from choosing Jesse as her default. You also have to remember she didn't find out about Jesse until the f2 so by that time she had already gotten rid of Jeremy and Graham was gone as well.

Jeremy, he would want to get married and thats the problem. I think she genuinely didn't want to lead him on and knew he was too intense. I'm sure it was stressful dealing with him during the six weeks, now imagine leading him on even more and letting him think they would get married post show.

I think Graham's departure really messed up her plans and her "happy ending", and I don't necessarily mean she was going to pick him but with his leaving at f4 it really messed up her order and how she was going to get rid of the guys.

With Jason's he has a kid to worry about and is mature enough to deal with things not working out. I think there are some definite plans for him to become one of the next Bachelors.

[StanleyCupCanes]

Originally Posted by blue valentine

With Jason's he has a kid to worry about and is mature enough to deal with things not working out. I think there are some definite plans for him to become one of the next Bachelors.

Oh, I hope not. He would have to become a hound dog. He's way too good for that role

From what I've been reading, the women are already lining up for him.. just in case things with DeAnna do not work out.

[Larel]

Originally Posted by DeAnna fan

How dare people on the alphabet message boards say that Jason is a bad father

Oh I know there are some crazies there for sure ! I have posted several times defending Jason but it gets lost in the black hole over there!