Thoughts and Comments in General #3 **Spoilers** Bachelorette 4

[nhromantic]

Originally Posted by NorthernLights

So many posts to read, so little time.
To begin with, I said on Friday that I'd not be watching tonight, and I have not changed my mind. I became tooooo invested in the Jason story, and just don't want to see this nice guy get dumped.
(edit out paragraph for space).

In my heart I know he will be okay. When life hands you a lemon, you make lemonade, and I think that he's that kind of guy. What I don't want to see is how this all ends. Oh, I'm sure she'll do a fine job of tears, and she'll give him a good goodbye speech, but it won't wipe away the sadness that goes with this. I was so surprised at how hard I cried when Jeremy was cut. I could not believe myself. So, to avoid this, I'll say goodbye to this series right now.

If only Fleiss hadn't done such a good job of making us all fall in love with Jason and his son - (and if DeAnna hadn't gone along with it - because she did - clearly she liked Jason, but she never ever, IMO had any intentions of becoming a step-mother.)

If asked, I hope Jason declines the offer to become the next Bachelor. He doesn't need this cheesy show to find the love of his life. DeAnna got what she wanted. But you know the old proverb, 'beware of what you wish for,'
she might have wished for a fairy tale ending, but gets a pig in a poke instead. Whatever, its her life, her wish, her ending (funny, Jason called it a beginning).

Finally someone who wrote my very own thoughts down. Thank you for that!

I have been away for a week and boy what a shock to come on here last night and see the new info about Jesse being F1. Thankfully, Jammie's video's really helped me see the Jesse DeAnna connection. Why on earth did they not present them as obviously on the show? Maybe they'll last, at least I believe their connection, (unlike Matt and Shayne) Fleiss just doesn't get it that we want an OBVIOUS AND REAL love story!

I won't watch tonight, I'll tape and fast forward to the last bit tomorrow because I cannot stand to see Jason heartbroken, but I know Jason will be fine in the long run and now he knows he can love again. I wish him and Ty the VERY best in their search for the one to help complete their family, just please do not do it on national television.

Thanks to all the FORTers who dedicated their time to sleuthing this season, you always make it memorable.

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[jdiver]

oh, people of the boards.. step back a moment,take the emotion out of it and remember that it's a TV SHOW.. they show you want they want you to see so you'll form a certain opinion. We have NO way of knowing what went on between any of the 'players' - only they know. Only Deanna knows how she feels about a man, not us. We can't jump to conclusions about the men, who said what, when, where, etc.

It's fun to guess and play slueth for sure, but don't hate on someone unless you know 100% the full story.

Personally - I liked both Jesse and Jason from the beginning, so I'm neutral about tonight's decision. Whatever it is, let's enjoy it for what it is... a reality show... and hope that the couple ends up happy..

[HopePhoenix]

Originally Posted by atem

Do you guys really think that Jesse could come up with the most romantic proposal ever seen by Chris H? I don't.

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I do. I think people are underestimating him. Just because he's a snowboarder or has longer hair doesn't mean he can't be romantic. Even DeAnna said that she was glad to see that he had a romantic side. This is the guy that held off until the carriage ride because he said that kissing MEANS something to him. And it's not because of the stupid GF rumors because those have been proven 100% false. He wanted to build a friendship first, he waited until the perfect moment to kiss her, and I fully believe that the proposal will be beautiful!

[thethreej's]

Originally Posted by atem

Do you guys really think that Jesse could come up with the most romantic proposal ever seen by Chris H? I don't.

pattycake92

ITA. I mean, that's just plain weird to me.

He has said that about the last four couples that got engaged lol. Anyways you look at it, Jason is the real winner in this whole situation.

[amy4bama]

Originally Posted by HopePhoenix

I do. I think people are underestimating him. Just because he's a snowboarder or has longer hair doesn't mean he can't be romantic. Even DeAnna said that she was glad to see that he had a romantic side. This is the guy that held off until the carriage ride because he said that kissing MEANS something to him. And it's not because of the stupid GF rumors because those have been proven 100% false. He wanted to build a friendship first, he waited until the perfect moment to kiss her, and I fully believe that the proposal will be beautiful!

[ilovepink]

This is my first post, but I have been a lurker on the boards since brad's season. I am a huge fan of jason-and am sad that he leaves tonight at F2. (although part of me is still holding out that all the rumors that say jesse F1 are a huge ruse). ive spent some time thinking about why deanna chose jesse and this is my feeling on it. i go back to brad and deanna in B11 and the fatal flaw in deanna and brad's relationship was simply that he did not see forever with her. he stated that deanna had everything that he was looking for in a wife-she was exactly what he was looking for. the catch was that he just didnt love her enough for the 'checklist' to matter. fast forward to this season-i feel like fleiss has set up the dichotomy between the F2 that parallels what brad saw in deanna in B11. jason is the guy that has everything that deanna wants, but jesse is the guy that she loves-so the 'checklist' doesn't matter in jason's case.

with that said, i feel a little better that jason is the F2. you cant help who you fall in love with, and i wish deanna and jesse the best. or, maybe tonight at 9:45 i will be pleasantly surprised.

[SherriM122]

Originally Posted by ilovepink

This is my first post, but I have been a lurker on the boards since brad's season. I am a huge fan of jason-and am sad that he leaves tonight at F2. (although part of me is still holding out that all the rumors that say jesse F1 are a huge ruse). ive spent some time thinking about why deanna chose jesse and this is my feeling on it. i go back to brad and deanna in B11 and the fatal flaw in deanna and brad's relationship was simply that he did not see forever with her. he stated that deanna had everything that he was looking for in a wife-she was exactly what he was looking for. the catch was that he just didnt love her enough for the 'checklist' to matter. fast forward to this season-i feel like fleiss has set up the dichotomy between the F2 that parallels what brad saw in deanna in B11. jason is the guy that has everything that deanna wants, but jesse is the guy that she loves-so the 'checklist' doesn't matter in jason's case.

with that said, i feel a little better that jason is the F2. you cant help who you fall in love with, and i wish deanna and jesse the best. or, maybe tonight at 9:45 i will be pleasantly surprised.

I've thought about that, too...that Fleiss wanted to set it up to make DeAnna look like she did something similar to what Brad did. Personally, I think it's all in the nature of the show. I think she understands what Brad went thru a little better, just as she kept telling the guys she knew what they were going thru. I think she feels as if she was led on more by Brad by things he said to her prior to the FRC, but who knows, since Jeremy seemed bumfuzzled, too. There was something missing between De and Jeremy though, and I never could quite put my finger on it. I wish them all the best.

[pattycake92]

If it's the best proposal yet, why does Chris look so sad as he is walking Jesse in? Just something else that doesn't make sense. People are going to be so ticked if it's Jesse that it won't matter how he proposes, they will be sitting there in shock.

[VelvetRed]

Quick post to agree with all the pro-Jesse and pro-Jesse/De comments (the sincere ones)! That is the
fairytale romance that I am hoping to see "pan out". I don't know if what they have will last forever, but
there's something there now (or at least there was on the aired show).

But I do need to make a Graham comment since he was recently mentioned here again. I'm sure I'm not the only
one who noticed how Graham's wonderful laugh can be heard all throughout MTA. Setting aside everything
that happened with Graham and De, it is really nice to hear that laugh. I guess his mic was turned up a little
higher than the other guys. Maybe I just like his laugh because I like his voice? Who knows, who cares...

[cantbelieveicar]

Originally Posted by pattycake92

If it's the best proposal yet, why does Chris look so sad as he is walking Jesse in? Just something else that doesn't make sense. People are going to be so ticked if it's Jesse that it won't matter how he proposes, they will be sitting there in shock.

I think i'm invisible. i JUST said this a few posts ago and no one responded...