Thoughts and Comments in General #3 **Spoilers** Bachelorette 4

[Grahamgroupie]

Originally Posted by goldie2

He said he did not think he could have..maybe he really meant something else...hard to know...maybe there was more to follow that he just didn't want to say there..just a weird thing to say...not something you say about someone you just said you had a connection with like none of the others..

What about the comment about him going on the show about "How when God comes knockin I figure you have to go check it out...That was interesting...

I am not sure given the show isn't over and there are three guys left still he would admit that he would have fallen in love with her or did..
I would like to know what is in the letter...wonder why we don't get to see much about it at the MTnothing...

.seems like a very odd comment to say..given the fact that was not the case anyway..they weren't there without other guys..which was a big problem for him..the whole process of the show...

And yes..I may have my Graham googles on and all....but I am fine with my interpretation..given some of his other comments and how difficult it was for him to leave and all..

He basically only really said the timing was not right for him as far as the marriage concept..not his genuine feelings...


Anyway..not debating anything..just expressing some thoughts...

Where are those goggles sold?

[Google]

 

[DeAnna fan]

Originally Posted by nutty1

I am just wondering this out loud....
How many people who really dislike Deanna are Graham fans? Jeremy fans??

If she picked either of them, and they were so happy together, I wonder if you all would feel differently. I think so, if you were to be honest.
Not to say the Jason fans wouldn't be the same way.
Human nature.....it's an interesting thing!

Yeah, sometimes that makes me wonder too. I like Deanna-Although I have to admit I wasn't really a fan of her while on B11 but she grew on me when I started watching this show. Now I like her more than ever

[Grahamgroupie]

Originally Posted by StellaGeorge

I think he meant what he said - he seems to be programmed as a guy who needs someone more passive, softspoken, etc. Less threatening to someone who is more of an introvert.

Nothing about Graham says he's an introvert. You can look at the pictures with the others after the MTA -- Amanda, Noelle and all of that group. Introverts don't behave like that, sorry.

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by Grahamgroupie

Where are those goggles sold?

Right now they are at a BARGAIN price. ...

Clearance item...

.but I have a feeling it may change at some point here..



Ok..don't start throwing things at me please....

[StellaGeorge]

Originally Posted by Grahamgroupie

Nothing about Graham says he's an introvert. You can look at the pictures with the others after the MTA -- Amanda, Noelle and all of that group. Introverts don't behave like that, sorry.

Camera edits - - a party scene is non-threatening - does not lend to indepth relationships. Introvert may not be a correct term - perhaps more like his mother's insight : a loner! And probably one who is l long way from being ready for change.

[CoolCruiser]

Originally Posted by StellaGeorge

Camera edits - - a party scene is non-threatening - does not lend to indepth relationships. Introvert may not be a correct term - perhaps more like his mother's insight : a loner! And probably one who is l long way from being ready for change.

Introvert - Some definitions:

A person who processes information internally or inwardly, by thinking about it and mulling it over.

Persons who prefer their inner worlds of ideas, conceptualization, and reflection. Introverts require time alone to process and integrate their thoughts


(psychology) a person who tends to shrink from social contacts and to become preoccupied with their own thoughts
turn inside; "He introverted his feelings"

One who focuses primarily on their own mind, feelings, or affairs

[Phyllie]

My Graham goggles tell me that he and DeAnna had a mutual attraction and friendship that he was willing and wanting to pursue. A lot of his interview was double speak.

Then, when she met his parents he realized that the important thing wasn't his connection with DeAnna, but that she WOULD NOT leave the Bachelorette without a future husband in the bank despite her continued obsession with Brad.

In order to "avenge" what Brad did to her, which she was practically holding Graham responsible for she is determined to find success. She isn't willing to fall head first into love but is looking for security, a family, and someone to coddle and support her. Graham thinks that Jason could be that guy for her, and he was standing in the way.

The question is, will DeAnna let Jason be that guy? I think that's what the people that have seen the Jason love have been saying all along but I didn't get it because she doesn't seem to have any chemistry with him. Maybe she doesn't need that as much as she needs what Jason does represent. Graham doesn't really stand between Jason and DeAnna so much as Brad does, in the sense that she has to let that go, that loss, that rejection, that rollercoaster ride, in order to embrace the quieter ride that is Jason.

I guess for the first time, I can see that it COULD happen, if the thrill seeking Deanna steps aside for the side of her that seeks comfort and security.

I can't see how she'd be there by the FRC, but maybe by the ATFR. If she isn't there, then I think she'll choose Jesse, or she and Jason will break up.

[redfam]

The difference between Jason and Jeremy is this...not even going to include Jessie...Jason knows that Dee have some connection with some other guys. I think he is prepared if ever he wasn't chosen to be The One. With Jeremy he just put it in back of his mind and he didn't think about the other guys that Dee have connection with and not thought about how much it would hurt him if Dee didn't chose him. He let it all hang out for Dee which I thought was brave but as Jason said on the HTD with his Mom, he still have his body armor on so it won't hurt too much and that's a risk his willing to take. I feel for Jeremy and I hope he won't be discourage to find the love of his life.

[StellaGeorge]

He's eliminated - for all the reasons we were shown and for many more we were not shown. Time to move on.

[blue valentine]

I think the double speak was because he wanted to be a gentleman and not throw her under the bus.

It was weird how he mentioned that Brad was brought up a lot. I think she sees a lot of Brad in Graham.