Thoughts and Comments in General #3 **Spoilers** Bachelorette 4

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by Just Sayin

How many public interviews did she appear happy in prior to the FRC in Brad's season? I don't recall any.

Where was she "glowing" in the interviews between the actual FRC and the airing for the FRC?

It has been stated NUMEROUS times in places that she hid her rejection and emotions from her closest family and friends before the ATFR with Brad...as to not give anything away..but was devastated ..obviously..

None of them had any idea what had happened..she put on a great face..

I guess she is really good at that....putting on a strong face and all after such a devastating loss and heartbreakbreak...



Wow..what a great correlation to Brad's season...Hmmmmmm........

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[mommyluvsnoah]

Originally Posted by ilovemick

Part of Grahams interview:

I think she and I suffered from a severe case of mis-communications. I don't question that her feelings were very strong for me and I also shared some very strong feelings for her. Where we were in the process may have been different because obviously as much as she wanted me to open up and say that I was falling in love or I was ready for marriage - I never heard those things directed at me in an individual settings, as far as being ready, I'm sure she is. I hope that she finds someone that she can be there with, but in regards to she and I we were definitely more on the same level than she knows
This is the paragraph and statement I do not understand. What does he mean by the statement I have bolded? I know ya'll are getting tired of us Graham fans, but just bear with us just a bit longer.

I too find this paragraph difficult to decipher. Taken with the whole context of the interview and the limo interview I think he is saying that contrary to what Dee thought, he is ready for a serious commitment. Just not with her and in the context of the show. Seeing how he talk about wanting a relationship, family, etc in his interviews and also makes it clear that they weren't right for each other and he didn't see himself ever falling in love with her that is the only thing that makes sense to me. JMO

[shoepie]

Originally Posted by aanjheni

I have reliable info from an insider that said that De did know about the endorsements (as did TPTB) but all were ok with it.

I believe you and your source. Promoting oneself or products and falling in love are not mutually exclusive. Most, not all, reality contestants have self promotion as an agenda. Deanna probably gets this because she is hoping for a career change or boost too. Sure she wants love but who would refuse a nifty job on some cable show?

[glowgirl]

No matter what, I believe we watch what appears to be a happy ending at the FRC. We will have to wait to see if it really is truly that.

If she does not relocate to be with him, that's the first clue.

[goldie2]

How did you get on the show?Actually somebody was in my bar and asked me if I was interested in doing the show. Unfortunately for me at the time I was going through a family crisis and I was leaving town, so I was unable to go through the traditional process. When I got back from home they asked me if I would come in for an interview, even though I had missed the window of time they were looking. So I went in for an interview and they actually offered me the show and I turned it down and then was called back and decided, hey, God only knocks so many times so this is kind of a sign that maybe you should take a look at it, so I ended up doing it.

Kinda odd to say about this experience I think...knowing he left and it didn't work out...I find it weird to mention the shows experience that way...God knocks on your Door...

seems like he thought alot more about what happened than he is letting on in his interviews..

just a very weird comment...like he was mentioning fate or something...just weird...anyone else think so...

odd in a series of alot of oddities so far...

[bugsme3]

I dont say much but reading about Jessie and the girlfriend bothered me a bit, but finding out that he might have fell in love with her and get toss now put a whole lot of spin on things.

He is the only one we haven't heard from since the show ended, come to think of it we have not have a lot of interview from Deanna either. I do believe a poster said here on the board that she sees Jason everyday near or at work, so if Deanna and her secret one was having visit and it is Jason would this poster see him every day I DONT THINK SO. I believe this season is a bust because I believe that Jason was chosen by default and that it was Jessie who would be chosen after Jeremy and Graham left but because of the girlfriend he was dumped.

[Jasmine305]

Originally Posted by bugsme3

I dont say much but reading about Jessie and the girlfriend bothered me a bit, but finding out that he might have fell in love with her and get toss now put a whole lot of spin on things.

He is the only one we haven't heard from since the show ended, come to think of it we have not have a lot of interview from Deanna either. I do believe a poster said here on the board that she sees Jason everyday near or at work, so if Deanna and her secret one was having visit and it is Jason would this poster see him every day I DONT THINK SO. I believe this season is a bust because I believe that Jason was chosen by default and that it was Jessie who would be chosen after Jeremy and Graham left but because of the girlfriend he was dumped.

From what I have read and listen to I have to agree with you.

[thethreej's]

Originally Posted by bugsme3

I dont say much but reading about Jessie and the girlfriend bothered me a bit, but finding out that he might have fell in love with her and get toss now put a whole lot of spin on things.

He is the only one we haven't heard from since the show ended, come to think of it we have not have a lot of interview from Deanna either. I do believe a poster said here on the board that she sees Jason everyday near or at work, so if Deanna and her secret one was having visit and it is Jason would this poster see him every day I DONT THINK SO. I believe this season is a bust because I believe that Jason was chosen by default and that it was Jessie who would be chosen after Jeremy and Graham left but because of the girlfriend he was dumped.

I would assume that they go on the weekends, since most people have to work. I dont think she meant literally that she sees him everyday, but was trying to make a point that she sees him alot. I dont think the actual gf had much of an impact on DeAnna's choice as F1, but had more of an impact of feeling hurt and deceived. I think she was pretty serious about finding love, and I am sure she was beyond angry that somebody came into the process with already having a gf, and that probably hurt her.

[amy4bama]

Originally Posted by bugsme3

I dont say much but reading about Jessie and the girlfriend bothered me a bit, but finding out that he might have fell in love with her and get toss now put a whole lot of spin on things.

He is the only one we haven't heard from since the show ended, come to think of it we have not have a lot of interview from Deanna either. I do believe a poster said here on the board that she sees Jason everyday near or at work, so if Deanna and her secret one was having visit and it is Jason would this poster see him every day I DONT THINK SO. I believe this season is a bust because I believe that Jason was chosen by default and that it was Jessie who would be chosen after Jeremy and Graham left but because of the girlfriend he was dumped.

I can't say I agree with this... I just can't see her finding out from Jeremy and then she just goes along with the hometown dates as if nothing happened? NOT LIKE HER...

[diluvlabs]

Originally Posted by ilovemick

Part of Grahams interview:

I think she and I suffered from a severe case of mis-communications. I don't question that her feelings were very strong for me and I also shared some very strong feelings for her. Where we were in the process may have been different because obviously as much as she wanted me to open up and say that I was falling in love or I was ready for marriage - I never heard those things directed at me in an individual settings, as far as being ready, I'm sure she is. I hope that she finds someone that she can be there with, but in regards to she and I we were definitely more on the same level than she knows
This is the paragraph and statement I do not understand. What does he mean by the statement I have bolded? I know ya'll are getting tired of us Graham fans, but just bear with us just a bit longer.

Well, obviously only Graham knows what he meant when he said this. I took it to mean that "in regards to she and I' - that maybe he was referring to the fact that he thought their feelings for each other were more in line than De thought. In other words, she maybe THOUGHT that she was falling in love, but it was more along the lines of infatuation - b/c that is definately what it seemed like for Graham. I feel like he is saying that DE's feelings were more in line with his towards HIM.
This probably does not make sense... I am trying to say maybe Graham is saying that De did not have as deep feelings for him as she once thought? Just my opinion!