Thoughts and Comments in General #3 **Spoilers** Bachelorette 4

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by Shannonm93

That's true, but you can't discount what she said ... "And I can't take the chance that I would be standing there and you wouldn't choose me in return." and to me that says more about who she would have chosen than anything, because she knew he was never going to be that person for her. Did she want him to be? Yes. Was he going to be? No and she knew that ... hence her saying that to him during their goodbye.

So by this statement how are we to assume that she has moved on from this to fall in love with another...if she was afraid he would not choose her..the one man she thought would be there at the end that she was falling in love with..

I just don't see her getting over that so quickly...I wouldn't...

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[Just Sayin]

Originally Posted by luvlady345

OK, seriously I doubt this, you know I can look happy at any given time even when my world is up side down, heck she even looked happy when Brad broke her heart......I don't think it will be any different trying to carry out her own fairy tale......

I think Deanna more than just "looks happy". She is not putting on a "happy smile"... she is glowing. She has this smile on her face that she cannot wipe off or hide. That is not putting on a happy face, that is being genuinely happy with where she is in life.

Again, she had an easy way out, and his name was Jesse. She would have sent Jason home long ago if she weren't genuinely feeling "it" for him.

[missdaisy]

I know Jeremy is F3 and leaving Monday. It is still going to be a very sad episode to watch

[Auntie Lyn]

Originally Posted by Calypso

I think it was her fear of being rejected that led to this outburst, rather than true love for Graham. By banishing Graham, (and Brad at the same time), she has now opened the door to a new chapter in her life. The focus will now be on that. She looks very happy in the upcoming previews. Getting rid of a bad habit will do that for a person.

So if I understand the concept
Graham was the cure for Brad and Jason is the cure for Graham? Wow

She needs to go inside to find those cures, you can't keep putting on band-aids and expect the wound to heal. Jason deserves a whole woman who loves him to the very depth of her soul. He has been wounded in the past per conversation with his mom. A woman he chooses needs to be there complete in herself, not running and searching for what she thinks she wants or rather running away from what she doesn't want. My opinion only, DeAnna needs to choose herself first.

[Larel]

Originally Posted by poinsettia

I think that Deanna had an epiphany on the HTD with Jason's family. It wasn't about bagging the hottest guy in the room. Hopefully she got her priorities right when she witnessed the loving stable family that surrounded Jason and Ty. This was probably the backdrop for the comments about it "changing her life". They can make it if with her newfound personal growth she comes to the realization that it is not always about her. Ty will play a pivotal role in that respect and Jason has the patience and determination to make it work...if she allows him.

See but I already think he is the hottest guy!!!! so she really lucked out IMO!

[diluvlabs]

Originally Posted by Just Sayin

I think Deanna more than just "looks happy". She is not putting on a "happy smile"... she is glowing. She has this smile on her face that she cannot wipe off or hide. That is not putting on a happy face, that is being genuinely happy with where she is in life.

Again, she had an easy way out, and his name was Jesse. She would have sent Jason home long ago if she weren't genuinely feeling "it" for him.

ITA - those SC's of De and Jason are very telling. I don't think you can fake that. She is smiling from ear to ear - not just with her mouth for a camera "moment". She does not appear to be putting on an act.

Like you said - De would not have taken Jason to the final 2 if she did not have very true and serious, deep feelings for him. She has stated this time and time again!

[mommyluvsnoah]

Originally Posted by missdaisy

I know Jeremy is F3 and leaving Monday. It is still going to be a very sad episode to watch

I have never been a Jeremy fan and even I am dreading Monday's show.

[Calypso]

Originally Posted by Alelady

Well, said, and I COMPLETELY agree with you! I posted before Monday's episode that I thought that her breakdown was as much about Brad (and her string of bad luck with guys) as it was about Graham. I think this was a real turning point for her. She looks so very happy starting next week, and I think we're in for a real treat the next couple weeks. I think that the relationship between Deanna and Jason will really start heating up, and that we are about to watch an incredible love story unfold before our very eyes!!

Yes, it's time for the "real" love story to begin!

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by Just Sayin

I think Deanna more than just "looks happy". She is not putting on a "happy smile"... she is glowing. She has this smile on her face that she cannot wipe off or hide. That is not putting on a happy face, that is being genuinely happy with where she is in life.

Again, she had an easy way out, and his name was Jesse. She would have sent Jason home long ago if she weren't genuinely feeling "it" for him.

I heard she LOOKED HAPPY for three months while she waited for the FRC to air with Brad and NO onE thought different...

seems to me if she is involved with a tv show...involving ultimately choosing somone she better look happy...if even just on the outside...

[Shannonm93]

Originally Posted by goldie2

So by this statement how are we to assume that she has moved on from this to fall in love with another...if she was afraid he would not choose her..the one man she thought would be there at the end that she was falling in love with..

I just don't see her getting over that so quickly...I wouldn't...

But you're not De and it seems clear to me in the previews I've seen for the MTA and what I've heard about it from people that were there (as much as they can say anyways) that both De & Graham have moved on. And like I've said several times before, I'm sorry, but I don't believe she was in love with Graham. I think she may have thought it was love, but at that age and with very little experience of actually being in love it is difficult to differentiate between actual love and infatuation which is what I believe she felt for him.