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xseannax;3076611; I took the whole Graham/DeAnna conversations a lot differently than other people did. The gist I got from their conversation was not "in the end" she wanted it to be Graham, which seems to be how most took it. I got that what she asked him for was for him to open up to her and give them a chance. And in the end he couldn't do that. Very big difference. And as someone else said the word "thought" when she was talking about falling in love with Graham was the key. She didn't say she did or was falling. She THOUGHT she was. I thought it was a beautiful day today until I stepped outside and realized it was a hundred friggin degrees.
For whatever reason Graham gave up. It could have been the process. It could have been DeAnna herself. It could have been just what he does in relationships. We may find out from the MTA, or we may not. But it is clear that they were not meant to be together. If you feel like another person could be "the one" you would move heaven and earth to make that happen. He couldn't even look her in the eyes. DeAnna made it very clear what she wanted from him. Graham totally shut down and would/could not do that. A person being non-communicative is a red flag...would he be like that in a relationship? DeAnna has no other choice but to think that, as his track record seems to reinforce that belief.
Jason's date was last, so she spent time with Jeremy before Jason. She had to have known going in with Jeremy that he was either her #1 or #2 and in case things didn't go well with Jason and his family, then she should keep an open mind about Jeremy. IF she had gone to Jason's HTD first then to Jeremy's we might have seen her pull away a little more from Jeremy. Any caring person in that situation would really want to be able to tell Jeremy that they gave it their all but just didn't fall in love. To some extent everyone has to be led on. That is the premise of the show. I imagine that it would be very hard not to get caught up in the moment with these guys. I know I wouldn't be able to keep my hands (or lips) off Jeremy. Where Brad stepped over the line is in making statements like "tomorrow will be a good day" all while saying he knew days beforehand that he would not choose anyone. And considering all the gossip surrounding Jesse, if what is said is true, I don't feel sorry for him because if his intentions weren't true, then he was leading DeAnna on.
I don't think the F1 should feel threatened in the least. I even think at this point Dee and TPTB pretty much knew that this was Jason's to lose, hence the "big" decision between Graham and Jason last night. They were face to face with only 1 rose left, and she called Jason's name.