Oooo, Beachmom. I could kiss you!

I’ve been lamenting over the need for a Bachelorette for Dummies book. This is better! Thanks for starting this thread. Be warned. I have no fear in asking moronic questions.
For starters:
* What does ATFR stand for?
After The Final Rose...usually a feel good follow up show highlighting the happy couple and giving the runner up a means of getting closure
* Have any of the contestants at any time during any show actually said “no” when asked if they would accept a rose? Or “no” to a proposal?
None of the women that I know refused a rose although many supposedly made it clear that they wanted to leave. For the men, I believe that one of Trista's bachelors early on declined a rose and the fabulous Fabrice in Jen's season declined a rose. No one has declined a proposal if one was asked.* In Survivor we’ve often been given false or altered SC during a season coupled with intentionally false information that led us to believe a certain player was going home (i.e. false plane ticket information, or being scheduled on The Early Show the morning after their boot, false origination dates on websites and so forth). Has that ever been the case in previous Bachelor or Bachelorette seasons specifically in regard to intentionally misleading spoilers about the F4, F3, F2, and F1 (the hometown dates, fantasy dates, and last chance dates)?
I have not heard of concrete examples where false info was presented, rumors all the time. National Enquirer used to publish the winner sometime near the end, but they haven't covered the show the last several seasons. As others have pointed out, I am sure that there have been people posting on various boards false info to lead sleuthers astray, but mostly on the ABC board, I think
* Have all of the F1 winners been likeable? Have their edits reflected that?
Not all winners have been universally likeable, but in comparison to the other choice, they usually were presented as more a match by the edit given their character, than the other bachelor(ette) not chosen.
* Do the contestants always live with the bach/bachelorette or are they segregated? (Someone was kind enough to mention that there was a recent issue with male contestants trashing swanky digs.) So is the Outhouse a new twist?
Usually all the bachelor(ette)s live in a separate mansion, a distance from the Bachelor(ette) residence. In Byron's season, he actually lived in the pool house adjacent to the women's mansion so he got to see them daily. DeAnna having a rotating trio of guys is a first. Yes there was a lawsuit in CA where one of the season's trashed someone's property
* Does it usually turn out that the Bachelor or Bachelorette have made their final pick long before the last chance date? (Have any of ‘em made mention of that in post-show interviews and such…)
I think for almost all of the successful couples, I have seen the Bachelor/ette comment about deciding much earlier than the LCD or sometimes wayyyy earlier in the process who they wanted..Meredith/Ian as an example. For those couples where the Bach/ette in question was about as involved as flipping a coin to determine his final choice--Lorenzo/Travis, since the relationships were busts, who cared?
* Is Chris Harrison the same guy who played host on a show on the Home and Garden channel?
Yep
* Most importantly. Where is the wink emote?
Thanks in advance!
