Seeing the season and the spin that it has been given, I hope that DeAnna stands at that podium before each bachelor that is left and says:Originally Posted by DeAnna fan;3082417;
"As much as it pains my heart, I am letting you both go at this time. I truly care about each of you. But it is obvious that there are still issues that I have been unable to address. My obvious hurt from Brad has not been totally resolved in my heart, and therefore any of my attempts at forming a loving relationship since then has been colored by that hurt. So many fears from so many years to resolve. I fear being left, I fear not finding love, I fear not having children and not being part of their lives. I know that in order to get love I have to be lovable myself. I need to learn to love me first, warts and all, and to know that I am not defined by a relationship, or title, or by some man's presence in my life. I need to take how ever long it's going to take to heal my heart. And when I am at that point, love will come into my life without trying. And when that time comes and if you're still interested, perhaps we could begin again to test the waters and see where it would go. But for right now, I choose me."
Not that this is going to happen, but with the edit from the season, with the exit scene with Graham including the accusatory comments about how he knew that that's what Brad did to her, and just like Brad... I can't see De choosing anyone but herself right now. If she should choose one of them to have a relationship with, she has 2 men already in the closet (Brad and Graham) coloring her actions and reactions with whoever the lucky guy is. That is no way to start a loving relationship or marriage.