Body, Lip and Facial Communication - Bachelorette 4 **SPOILERS**

[dodie430]

Originally Posted by mommadeb

No, this is Jeremy

That's who I thought it was, hand on heart, just by looking at the back of his head....lol.

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[Lynn7]

Okay, I didn't see the Jason picture.

They are standing very close together when compared to the other guys. Excellent eye contact. She's leaning back with him as well but her chin is just level so it's more serious and not as flirty as with Jeremy and Jesse. She is also holding both of his hands and he seems to maybe be the kind of guy that talks with his. He isn't quite gripping her hands completely. Don't be surprised to see him use his hands alot when he talks. She definitely has a genuine smile; she likes what she sees.

[Lynn7]

Originally Posted by dodie430

I am really sorry for asking, I'm doing my best to keep up here, but are you saying this is Graham? How was that determined? It looks like someone else to me, I know who, but not sure of all the names yet.

It's Jeremy. I was just using that photo to compare DeAnna's interactions with him (Jeremy).

[mommadeb]

Originally Posted by Lynn7

Okay, I didn't see the Jason picture.

They are standing very close together when compared to the other guys. Excellent eye contact. She's leaning back with him as well but her chin is just level so it's more serious and not as flirty as with Jeremy and Jesse. She is also holding both of his hands and he seems to maybe be the kind of guy that talks with his. He isn't quite gripping her hands completely. Don't be surprised to see him use his hands alot when he talks. She definitely has a genuine smile; she likes what she sees.

I got that feeling as well. Especially seeing the sc of them talking one on one on the patio. She very much likes him.

[armywife]

Originally Posted by Lynn7

Ha! Many kisses are romantic. Intimacy is read differently for deaf/HoH and there are many degrees to a persons' ability to be intimate...if that makes sense.

With the show, however, I am watching primarily for the *extreme* signs of intimacy between the two people. There just isn't 24 hours a day to watch them interact so I have to kind of zone in on the significant differences in physical and facial interactions and then make note of them here.

Now, having said that, I do tend to use the word 'generally' alot. There is so much more to non-audible interaction than what I write here. So, when I see a couple on the Bachelor/ette indicating the *extreme* signs of intimacy I zero in on them and study them more because it's obvious to me that there is something going on between them. Not everybody kisses with their eyes open (I do; but I'm different ) nor do people have to kiss with their hands on the face (I do; but I'm different ) but, when hearing people do that, it reads a certain way...very concisely, it's sexual freedom and very intimate; much deeper than a peck on the lips kind of kiss.

I can't speak for the other deafies but, for me, I am huge on the visual, and touching, because it helps me to understand my own non-audible intimate communication better.

I know LYNN .. I was just being silly I agree that touching one's face while kissing is very intimate and a loving gesture. My Husband doesn't do that, in exchange whenever he kisses my head or rubs my back I tend to equate that to being just as much as holding my head when he kisses me. Which I don't think in all these years he has ever done

On a sidenote... PLEASE keep up the body language.. PLEASE.. I love it. Also can you breakdown each guy in a column with your thoughts on them. I mean, I am able to read people, but it's so much more fun observing other's thoughts. I definitely think the hands-in-pocket is tacky.. but it could be from nerves.. This is as much fun as watching Bill O'reilly's body language expert (if anyone has ever seen her on his show)

I'll start it: (change if anyone see's different)

Graham- Distant, hands in pocket, not the biggest smile., do not see a very polished "1st time" impression
Jeremy- Very interactive with her. Loving gesture grasping her hands.

[Lynn7]

Originally Posted by armywife

I know LYNN .. I was just being silly I agree that touching one's face while kissing is very intimate and a loving gesture. My Husband doesn't do that, in exchange whenever he kisses my head or rubs my back I tend to equate that to being just as much as holding my head when he kisses me. Which I don't think in all these years he has ever done

On a sidenote... PLEASE keep up the body language.. PLEASE.. I love it. Also can you breakdown each guy in a column with your thoughts on them. I mean, I am able to read people, but it's so much more fun observing other's thoughts. I definitely think the hands-in-pocket is tacky.. but it could be from nerves.. This is as much fun as watching Bill O'reilly's body language expert (if anyone has ever seen her on his show)

I'll start it: (change if anyone see's different)

Graham- Distant, hands in pocket, not the biggest smile., do not see a very polished "1st time" impression
Jeremy- Very interactive with her. Loving gesture grasping her hands.

Oh, I know you were being silly. It's just that your post gave me an opportunity to explain something that I've always wanted to. That being, there are many complexities involved when a deaf person is reading someone versus a hearing person doing the same thing.

Do we have screencaps of all of the guys meeting DeAnna somewhere?

[hotlanta babe]

Lynn, can you dissect this pic

http://i27.tinypic.com/pvfhf.jpg

(commenting on the 1st night pic of Graham and DeAnna -- far apart stance)
Remember, it is stated several times that Graham has a shy Southern charm that intrigues DeAnna.

[beeleever]

Originally Posted by hotlanta babe

(commenting on the 1st night pic of Graham and DeAnna -- far apart stance)
Remember, it is stated several times that Graham has a shy Southern charm that intrigues DeAnna.

Yes, and remember, he does get that first kiss. It looks pretty hot from the screencaps!

[Lynn7]

Originally Posted by hotlanta babe

(commenting on the 1st night pic of Graham and DeAnna -- far apart stance)
Remember, it is stated several times that Graham has a shy Southern charm that intrigues DeAnna.

Oh. and I saw that too. There is a definite shyness on his part in the meet and greet. I think she warms to it.

[sluether28]

Originally Posted by beeleever

Yes, and remember, he does get that first kiss. It looks pretty hot from the screencaps!

How do you know the hot SC kiss is the the first kiss?