Body, Lip and Facial Communication - Bachelorette 4 **SPOILERS**

[mommadeb]

Yes, I did say her hands were kind of casual at his waist. When you watch the actual scene it's more apparent. Plus the distance between them is odd for a fantasy date.

And then we have this shot real happiness and obviously missed him or something like that.http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn73/Lynn71965/DeAnnawithJeremyfantasydate.jp g

I agree with the bolded part wholeheartedly. I just think there is a major connection between these 2 just like I see with jason as well.

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[candimichele]

Originally Posted by mommadeb

I agree with the bolded part wholeheartedly. I just think there is a major connection between these 2 just like I see with jason as well.

Me too.. I wish Jeremy and Jason were F2, though we haven't even seen the show yet..

[mommadeb]

Originally Posted by candimichele

Me too.. I wish Jeremy and Jason were F2, though we haven't even seen the show yet..

That would be awesome but then it would be so hard to watch one of them go home at F2. Know what I mean. I mean both are excellent choices for De, but I wouldn't want to see either of these guys to get hurt. Does that make sense?

[candimichele]

Originally Posted by mommadeb

That would be awesome but then it would be so hard to watch one of them go home at F2. Know what I mean. I mean both are excellent choices for De, but I wouldn't want to see either of these guys to get hurt. Does that make sense?

Yes, it makes perfect sense.. but that's the bad thing about this show. The F2 is always heartbroken and it hurts me to see any F2 hurt like that..

[Lynn7]

Originally Posted by armywife

geesh ya mean after all these years, I am not getting a romantic kiss from my husband??? Maybe I should superglue his hands to my face ...

Ha! Many kisses are romantic. Intimacy is read differently for deaf/HoH and there are many degrees to a persons' ability to be intimate...if that makes sense.

With the show, however, I am watching primarily for the *extreme* signs of intimacy between the two people. There just isn't 24 hours a day to watch them interact so I have to kind of zone in on the significant differences in physical and facial interactions and then make note of them here.

Now, having said that, I do tend to use the word 'generally' alot. There is so much more to non-audible interaction than what I write here. So, when I see a couple on the Bachelor/ette indicating the *extreme* signs of intimacy I zero in on them and study them more because it's obvious to me that there is something going on between them. Not everybody kisses with their eyes open (I do; but I'm different ) nor do people have to kiss with their hands on the face (I do; but I'm different ) but, when hearing people do that, it reads a certain way...very concisely, it's sexual freedom and very intimate; much deeper than a peck on the lips kind of kiss.

I can't speak for the other deafies but, for me, I am huge on the visual, and touching, because it helps me to understand my own non-audible intimate communication better.

[mommadeb]

Ok Lynn. We gave you Graham's to pick apart. How about these?

[Lynn7]

Ok Lynn. We gave you Graham's to pick apart. How about these?

http://img30.picoodle.com/img/img30/4/5/16/f_jeremyam_fecf695.jpg

http://img31.picoodle.com/img/img31/4/5/16/f_jessem_689e95d.jpg

http://img33.picoodle.com/img/img33/4/5/16/f_seannm_2c6b920.jpg

http://img32.picoodle.com/img/img32/4/5/16/f_jasonnm_71d9028.jpg

I thought that was Graham with his hands in his pockets that I wrote about?

With both Jeremy and Jesse she is leaning back a fair bit but she also has her chin lowered slightly and is smiling. It kind of reads like instant attraction and being coy, flirty, with those two. With Jesse she almost seems like she's chuckling about something so maybe he came up to her and said, "Hey dudette, I'm Jesse, you're looking mighty sweet tonight." With Jeremy, he is actually holding her hands and that, coupled with his facial expression, reads as sincere, genuine. So taken as a whole, of those two, I would say that DeAnna caught her breath with Jeremy...I hope you understand what I mean by that.

With Sean there is a great deal of distance between them but she is also gripping his hands and has a big smile on her face, chin titled upwards. It's not as coy and flirty as the other two. His expression seems shy, maybe nervous. Understanding in the circumstances. With her, I don't know how else to explain her expression other than, hmm...picture a wedding lineup where everyone is walking through the line to meet the bridal party before taking their seats...she reads like, "Thank you for coming to my wedding." I honestly don't know how to explain it but that's what her body language and facial expression reads like. Thank you so much for coming.

[dodie430]

And then we have this shot real happiness and obviously missed him or something like that.
http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn73/Lynn71965/DeAnnawithJeremyfantasydate.jp g

I am really sorry for asking, I'm doing my best to keep up here, but are you saying this is Graham? How was that determined? It looks like someone else to me, I know who, but not sure of all the names yet.

[mommadeb]

Originally Posted by Lynn7

I thought that was Graham with his hands in his pockets that I wrote about?

Yeah, that was Graham that you did first on his own. I was wondering about the other 4 main contenders that have been discussed.

What about Jason? I didn't see any mention of him or did I miss that one?

[mommadeb]

Originally Posted by dodie430

I am really sorry for asking, I'm doing my best to keep up here, but are you saying this is Graham? How was that determined? It looks like someone else to me, I know who, but not sure of all the names yet.

No, this is Jeremy