Body, Lip and Facial Communication - Bachelorette 4 **SPOILERS**

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by Auntie Lyn

Could you explain FIB please... Thanks




I have not seen De kiss another yet in this series like she has kissed and been kissed by Graham. I grant you we have not been privy to all the scenes of the kisses between De and Jason, or De and Jeremy, or even De and Jesse. But we also haven't been privy to all the kissing scenes between her and Graham either. There is a lot of deep current that runs between them (De and Graham), which to me is obvious, and I would consider that a level of intimacy.

Speaking from my own personal experience, the type of kisses where the passionate kiss is followed by the resting of foreheads together is a meeting of the hearts in the kiss itself followed by a meeting of the minds. It is a very intimate and trusting move, which to me says "all is well". There is almost a tangible feel to seeing the captures of these moments and I feel like I have stumbled onto them and don't want to intrude.

Aunt Lyn..I completely agree with all you have said..I feel like when they are together we have stumbled onto their deep and intimate moments together..and feel their struggles with this process and the connection they shared...

And just because they don't maul each other in front of the cameras does not mean that they are not very intimate emotionally and connected at a deep level here..seems quite the opposite actually..

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[thethreej's]

I find rolling into Jason's body and snuggling and moaning just as intimate as the heads being close together. There is no denying she had a few connections during this season, so there are going to be times she is intimate with several of the men. However, to me the next few episodes are going to be very telling.

[Shannonm93]

Originally Posted by thethreej's

I find rolling into Jason's body and snuggling and moaning just as intimate as the heads being close together. There is no denying she had a few connections during this season, so there are going to be times she is intimate with several of the men. However, to me the next few episodes are going to be very telling.

I agree, thethreej's ... especially when we get to the week after this and we start with the HTD's, followed by the FD's and then the LCD's ... all of those should be very interesting.

[Estella]

Originally Posted by 2observe

So are you saying that DeAnna is being intimate with both Graham and Jason at the same time? Just asking for clarification.

There are probably intimate moments with more than one guy, yes. But I guess what I was trying to say was that just because her and Graham rest their heads together after kissing we can't say they have the most intimate connection because we never get to see if she does the same thing with Jason - their kisses always "fade out".

[Shannonm93]

Originally Posted by Estella

There are probably intimate moments with more than one guy, yes. But I guess what I was trying to say was that just because her and Graham rest their heads together after kissing we can't say they have the most intimate connection because we never get to see if she does the same thing with Jason - their kisses always "fade out".

Which really makes me wonder. I mean you almost have to assume that there was more ... much more after that "fade out" since they're always still together (and still kissing) and never walking away when their kisses "end" on screen.

[albean99]

Originally Posted by Shannonm93

Auntie Lyn, if you go back and watch the scene with Jason & De on the double lounge chair I think you may change your mind. I watched it and carefully compared it to De's kisses with Graham and her kisses with Graham usually seem to be just little pecks on the lips ... nothing more. Watch that scene with Jason & De and you will see that their kiss was much deeper than just a peck on the lips, if you get my drift. Also, De & Jesse have not kissed (atleast not that we have been privy to) ... just wanted to make clarify that with you.

Oh and what I think they mean by FIB is a First Impression Boutineirre.

I'm not Auntie Lyn but I did go back and watched that scene again and still saw what I'd noted before, that it was nice but quite tame. I didn't see a passionate kiss at all but also don't think you can compare it to the RC kisses for any of them because they're in view of the house.

Obviously I know there's a good chance that she picks Jason but I don't see a growing love story at all. I admit to bias towards Graham but I'm realistic and know he's not the f1 but it's hard to see where Jason is either.

[Shannonm93]

Originally Posted by albean99

I'm not Auntie Lyn but I did go back and watched that scene again and still saw what I'd noted before, that it was nice but quite tame. I didn't see a passionate kiss at all but also don't think you can compare it to the RC kisses for any of them because they're in view of the house.

Obviously I know there's a good chance that she picks Jason but I don't see a growing love story at all. I admit to bias towards Graham but I'm realistic and know he's not the f1 but it's hard to see where Jason is either.

That's okay, albean ... to each his/her own, right?? It just seems so obvious to me, but then again I'm a Jason fan, so maybe I just see it a little bit more clearly, but I guess we just see what we want to see (of course that said, even though I don't think Graham or Jeremy is the right guy for her (JMO), I absolutely see a connection with both of them). Thanks for your reply.

[thethreej's]

Originally Posted by albean99

I'm not Auntie Lyn but I did go back and watched that scene again and still saw what I'd noted before, that it was nice but quite tame. I didn't see a passionate kiss at all but also don't think you can compare it to the RC kisses for any of them because they're in view of the house.

Obviously I know there's a good chance that she picks Jason but I don't see a growing love story at all. I admit to bias towards Graham but I'm realistic and know he's not the f1 but it's hard to see where Jason is either.

I cant see how anybody cant see the love story unfolding between De and Jason, but that is jmo. It just shows how we all see things differently.

[Capegal]

AAwwwww and we probably missed THE best part of D and Jason playing kissy face too - whew!!

[Shannonm93]

Originally Posted by Capegal

AAwwwww and we probably missed THE best part of D and Jason playing kissy face too - whew!!

I know CG, when they cut off in the middle of that kiss ... I was like darnit (except with a slightly different word)!

I'm just hoping we could some more lovely "DeJay" time tomorrow night and if not, well then I am sure we will the next three weeks after that!