Jesse **SPOILERS**

[Mike'sgirl]

Originally Posted by jonsmom98

So, the possibility that even tho Jeremy was F3, and then she finds out about Jesse, that the only choice left was Jason, and that if she would have had this info prior, that Jeremy could have been part of F1&2 and been the final choice?

Yes, actually that is a possibility in my mind although remote. Jason is prime candidate for F1, and unless we see some evidence as to why De would not pick him, he most likely is the F1.

But, if the issue of residence turns out to be crucial to De, we know that Jesse did say he could see himself relocating to Newnan, I don't know for certain - but, I don't think that would be an easy transition for Jason to make.

In theory, it is possible that she would rule out Jason due to residence, and chose Jesse - then find out, (blah, blah) making her reject Jesse as well and leaving her open for a romance with Jeremy - but doesn't that sound a bit far fetched? Even to me it sounds like too many "ifs".

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[jonsmom98]

Originally Posted by Mike'sgirl

Yes, actually that is a possibility in my mind although remote. Jason is prime candidate for F1, and unless we see some evidence as to why De would not pick him, he most likely is the F1.

But, if the issue of residence turns out to be crucial to De, we know that Jesse did say he could see himself relocating to Newnan, I don't know for certain - but, I don't think that would be an easy transition for Jason to make.

In theory, it is possible that she would rule out Jason due to residence, and chose Jesse - then find out, (blah, blah) making her reject Jesse as well and leaving her open for a romance with Jeremy - but doesn't that sound a bit far fetched? Even to me it sounds like too many "ifs".

I agree about the too many "ifs"...I just think that this could explain alot to what I've been reading and seeing in the SCs. I seem to remember that DeDe said something about having alot in common with one and it was linked to Jesse...until she finds out about the g/f...by then, it's too late...

[LuvnIt]

I am not good with words but how can you people believe that if she let Jeremy go at final 3 and took Jason to final 2 and because she finds crap out about Jesse that she would wish she had kept Jeremy i am sorry but IMO she would never have taken Jason to final 2 knowing he sacrificied a lot to be on this show with his son Ty that she would have kept him that long if she didn't want to pick him at the end this crap about Jeremy or Graham coming back is just pure stupidity. If she wanted Jeremy she would have kept Jeremy and sent Jason home if Jeremy is who she wanted.

[librarylady]

Originally Posted by LuvnIt

I am not good with words but how can you people believe that if she let Jeremy go at final 3 and took Jason to final 2 and because she finds crap out about Jesse that she would wish she had kept Jeremy i am sorry but IMO she would never have taken Jason to final 2 knowing he sacrificied a lot to be on this show with his son Ty that she would have kept him that long if she didn't want to pick him at the end this crap about Jeremy or Graham coming back is just pure stupidity. If she wanted Jeremy she would have kept Jeremy and sent Jason home if Jeremy is who she wanted.

I totally agree with this. If Jason is her F1 it will be because that was who she wanted first and foremost and why she let the other 3 go. I am so looking forward to more interaction between De and Jason in the coming weeks. I think there is a lot more to their relationship than just the fact that he has an adorable son. I have not seen any of this with the other F4, especially Jesse, though I could change my mind after their date on Monday, I suppose.

[jonsmom98]

Originally Posted by LuvnIt

I am not good with words but how can you people believe that if she let Jeremy go at final 3 and took Jason to final 2 and because she finds crap out about Jesse that she would wish she had kept Jeremy i am sorry but IMO she would never have taken Jason to final 2 knowing he sacrificied a lot to be on this show with his son Ty that she would have kept him that long if she didn't want to pick him at the end this crap about Jeremy or Graham coming back is just pure stupidity. If she wanted Jeremy she would have kept Jeremy and sent Jason home if Jeremy is who she wanted.

I didn't quite explain that right. I believe that she has strong feelings for all three. I do feel/see that Jason has the edge over the other 2, But is that because at the time of picking F1&2 it was close until she found out about Jesse? and that there could be regret on Jeremy's F3?

[judibug]

Wouldn't it be ironic if she gets to F2 and discovers . . . LIKE BRAD . . . that she can't really look either of her choices in the eye and say she loves them? I know most people on this board (and in the world) seem to hate Brad, but I thought what he did was one of the most honest endings we've ever seen. Maybe at some point in this process De will realize the position he was in and finally understand and forgive him.

[KashatheDiva]

Originally Posted by judibug

Wouldn't it be ironic if she gets to F2 and discovers . . . LIKE BRAD . . . that she can't really look either of her choices in the eye and say she loves them? I know most people on this board (and in the world) seem to hate Brad, but I thought what he did was one of the most honest endings we've ever seen. Maybe at some point in this process De will realize the position he was in and finally understand and forgive him.

You make some very valid points. Certainly food for thought.
I definitely think De will choice a F1. I do not think she will repeat what happened in Bachelor 11. I do think she may have to do a lot of soul searching at some point.

[Rubyrosette]

Question...Where does it say that she finds out about Jesse and if there was anything for her to find out that she did not already know or was made aware of from the start?? I think that she knows that there will/were stipulations for Jesse to be on the show as far as his sponsers go. As far as the g/f goes, let's say perhaps she and Jesse really fall in love and he confides to her about the g/f breakup. If I was in love with someone and he was in love with me, and he brokeup to be with me...sorry to say, I would be over the top he chose me! Kind of the same thing that DeAnna is doing with 25 other guys. Only Jesse broke up with the g/f before she chose her final guy. IF and only IF it is all true...because Jesse cannot speak for himself right now. A ditched and upset g/f can wreck havoc and have a good time doing it when he cannot say a word to defend himself. I don't really feel that it is going to be anything so dramatic. IF it was that strong of a relationship with the other girl, then Jesse would still be with her. They had not even been together that long from what I can gather. Oh well JMO.

[Jammie]

Originally Posted by Rubyrosette

Question...Where does it say that she finds out about Jesse and if there was anything for her to find out that she did not already know or was made aware of from the start?? I think that she knows that there will/were stipulations for Jesse to be on the show as far as his sponsers go. As far as the g/f goes, let's say perhaps she and Jesse really fall in love and he confides to her about the g/f breakup. If I was in love with someone and he was in love with me, and he brokeup to be with me...sorry to say, I would be over the top he chose me! Kind of the same thing that DeAnna is doing with 25 other guys. Only Jesse broke up with the g/f before she chose her final guy. IF and only IF it is all true...because Jesse cannot speak for himself right now. A ditched and upset g/f can wreck havoc and have a good time doing it when he cannot say a word to defend himself. I don't really feel that it is going to be anything so dramatic. IF it was that strong of a relationship with the other girl, then Jesse would still be with her. They had not even been together that long from what I can gather. Oh well JMO.

There is NOTHING about Megan that wreaks havoc and if you knew her, you wouldn't have said this. She could go on her myspace and blog about the whole thing. She could post pictures. She could do interviews. She isn't.

If someone broke up with someone to be with me, I would wonder when the other shoe was going to drop. But that's just me. And this isn't a statement towards Jesse. I refuse to be negative where he is concerned. He has enough on his plate without me or anyone ragging on him. This is just a general statement about me.

[Just Sayin]

Originally Posted by jonsmom98

I didn't quite explain that right. I believe that she has strong feelings for all three. I do feel/see that Jason has the edge over the other 2, But is that because at the time of picking F1&2 it was close until she found out about Jesse? and that there could be regret on Jeremy's F3?

I can't recall any season where TB/ette was truly undecided at the F3/F2 ceremony and definitely not by the LCD/FRC. Most have openly stated that it was much earlier on in the process that they knew who their F1 was, and I think this is the case the Deanna as well.

I think Jeremy was let go at F3 to save him from as much heartache as possible. I think he is much more "in" to Deanna than Jesse, and therefore, Jesse is F2 because it will cause him less pain that Jeremy.

Jason is F1 not because Graham "chooses" to leave (although I have yet to see why this is everyone's theory, but that is a different thread) or because Jesse has some crazy secret, but rather because he is the one and only one that Deanna wants to be with.

JMO

Originally Posted by Jammie

There is NOTHING about Megan that wreaks havoc and if you knew her, you wouldn't have said this. She could go on her myspace and blog about the whole thing. She could post pictures. She could do interviews. She isn't.

If someone broke up with someone to be with me, I would wonder when the other shoe was going to drop. But that's just me. And this isn't a statement towards Jesse. I refuse to be negative where he is concerned. He has enough on his plate without me or anyone ragging on him. This is just a general statement about me.

ETA: I completely agree with this bottom part. How could she ever trust him when their whole relationship had been built on a lie. And, how could she ever not be paranoid of when she is going to be the one in "Megan's shoes"???