Jesse **SPOILERS**

[zen4]

Originally Posted by Jammie

I'm a grown woman acting as though I've not learned real lessons in life.

Jesse.

I've gotten so caught up in this 'show' that I've forgotten one very important thing. We're all prone to the human condition and not one, especially me, has the right to place judgement. I know better. I know my own past. I remember what a wild woman I was when I was 25 (and thanks for the memories).

If Jesse reads this board, no one here hates you. Most just prefer Jason so they want to find all kinds of fault with you. In Brad's season, a lot of people here didn't like DeAnna because they preferred Jenni. Thing is, TV makes people crazy. Crazy for those behind the camera and crazy for those who are doing the watching. I've been on both sides. Nothing is as it seems. I know that and here I act like an idiot.

The thing about you getting caught between two great women, well, it's not a new idea. It's made great songs and a few good movies, too. And books are full of this exact experience. I've heard you have an amazing life energy and that everyone who is around you feels like they have been filled....with LIFE. That's pretty cool. It also gives you a lot of opportunities in life and at 25, you're not supposed to know all the answers. You're supposed to be exploring them.

I hope you take the best of this experience with you and leave the worst far behind. And I hope you really do find what you are looking for in your own life, whatever that may be and whomever that may be with. Just know tons of people have gone through this exact same experience (albeit not on TV). You aren't alone. Not by a longshot. Wisdom will find you and bring you home when you are ready.

Peace.

What a thoughtful post Jammie. You have a Beautiful soul

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[bizbachfan]

Originally Posted by Capegal

Having been very much a part of last season on this board - I have never heard anything about the promotion of a clothing line - BIZBACH you have posted this numerous numerous times and I can't find any basis for it - and my memory usually serves me quite well. Shayne may have been wearing clothes from a specific line - maybe even her own - but they weren't loaded with sayings and company names - they were just her own clothes. I am not sure where this comes from or why it matters.

well it was discussed a lot on the abc board
website is pinkpolkadotonline.com shayne models their clothes and almost exclusively wore them on the show. this combined with her dad saying she went on the show for her career are about as straighforward as you can get. while I agree there is a difference between wearing "product" and getting paid to stay on the show. But the sources for some of the info on jesse seem to be a few articles with some posters believing portions and not believing other portions (such as his cousin nominating him for show)
and plain rumor.


there are posters on here if you go thru post by post they post only about Jesse and contradict themselves as they go, they sort of step into to stir the pot and throw out tidbits of info.

it just seems sort of set up, not that I don't think its sprinkled with truth as well

[bizbachfan]

Originally Posted by Bloomers

I don't know from a production standpoint about any of it as that is not my area of expertise, but I just thought Ron's description was interesting, enlightening and very funny! I wish I could find it again.....He went on to say that Jesse was a "brilliant businessman", but (paraphrased but accurate) you couldn't make him do anything he didn't want to or that he didn't feel passionate about.
From that I formed this absolutely amused mental analogy of parents and an adolescent boy who was determined that he was going to wear and do what he wanted to, was not going to conform to rules and regulations, and who was going to be an indivualist at all costs.
I think Ron was implying that the producers had somewhat of a fight on their hands with Jesse.

thanks for the info, will try find it, saw all his posts but must have missed it
thanks again

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by Jammie

I'm a grown woman acting as though I've not learned real lessons in life.

Jesse.

I've gotten so caught up in this 'show' that I've forgotten one very important thing. We're all prone to the human condition and not one, especially me, has the right to place judgement. I know better. I know my own past. I remember what a wild woman I was when I was 25 (and thanks for the memories).

If Jesse reads this board, no one here hates you. Most just prefer Jason so they want to find all kinds of fault with you. In Brad's season, a lot of people here didn't like DeAnna because they preferred Jenni. Thing is, TV makes people crazy. Crazy for those behind the camera and crazy for those who are doing the watching. I've been on both sides. Nothing is as it seems. I know that and here I act like an idiot.

The thing about you getting caught between two great women, well, it's not a new idea. It's made great songs and a few good movies, too. And books are full of this exact experience. I've heard you have an amazing life energy and that everyone who is around you feels like they have been filled....with LIFE. That's pretty cool. It also gives you a lot of opportunities in life and at 25, you're not supposed to know all the answers. You're supposed to be exploring them.

I hope you take the best of this experience with you and leave the worst far behind. And I hope you really do find what you are looking for in your own life, whatever that may be and whomever that may be with. Just know tons of people have gone through this exact same experience (albeit not on TV). You aren't alone. Not by a longshot. Wisdom will find you and bring you home when you are ready.

Peace.

Jammie, you are a sweetheart. I would add a couple of things....
I remember 25. I am that typical Southern woman that some have described, so the shenanigans that I pulled ( granted not as many as some others because of my nature, but still I pulled some!) were over with my college days, and I was educated, established in my career, and had my child scheduled in on my life plan by 25. Still, I remember those days, and I concur that wisdom does come as an outgrowth.

From what I have read it sounds, Jessie, like you are an overall gifted individual who has the proverbial "life by the tail." If I were to add to Jamie's post, I would want to say that it appears that you are one of those charismatic individuals that people are drawn to, especially maybe young women who only know that you have whatever "essence " that it is that draws them to you.
I would caution you by saying that this gives you power - a power that can hurt, harm or totally destroy lives if you aren't careful. And, it will not be enough to say that they put themselves in your pathway if you dangle with them because the burden will be on you to moderate the situation since you are the one with the control. I would ask you to consider all things carefully and act with as much wisdom as possible.
Best of luck in the future!

[Luvstruck]

Does anyone know how tall Jesse actually is or even how tall Deanna is? Not that it really matters but beside the other guys he seems short but when you look at the screen caps of him and Deanna dancing she has on what look to be three inch heels and he is still taller than her. He is certainly the most athletic or maybe the one who tries the most to win time with Dee and in group pics always seems to be by her side. I can't wait to see their date this next week to see what chemistry they have together. In the screen cap of him with his hands over his face it looks like he is in anguish. I do think he becomes involved emotionally with Dee during this process and really wants her. Rumors or not he seems like a great guy and that his heart is in the right place.

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by bizbachfan

thanks for the info, will try find it, saw all his posts but must have missed it
thanks again

I am so sorry; I try to be meticulous about reference as that was so important in my job, but I came in late in the evening and started reading until well after midnight. By that time, I could remember what I read but not where I read it. However, I am sure that is what was said. The poster was saying that Ron specified that Jessie was not questioned about his sponsorship by the guys, but he did give the producers a hard time about the clothes he was wearing; he did say that Jesse was a "brilliant businman", but that Jesse would NOT be forced into doing anything he did not want to do or did not feel passionate about.
The producers did try to make him change his clothes several times with varying success ( or lack of); I thought I understood they put the black tape on and he ripped it off ( maybe the others guys too). What I think I remember was that the other guys to a much, much lesser extent gave the producers a hard time about wearing some of Jesse's clothing as well ( maybe for the kick of it? or Ron indicated he really liked the slogans on some of the shirts, esp, the Home Wrecker - which somebody else got to wear).

[Jasmine305]

Originally Posted by Luvstruck

Does anyone know how tall Jesse actually is or even how tall Deanna is? Not that it really matters but beside the other guys he seems short but when you look at the screen caps of him and Deanna dancing she has on what look to be three inch heels and he is still taller than her. He is certainly the most athletic or maybe the one who tries the most to win time with Dee and in group pics always seems to be by her side. I can't wait to see their date this next week to see what chemistry they have together. In the screen cap of him with his hands over his face it looks like he is in anguish. I do think he becomes involved emotionally with Dee during this process and really wants her. Rumors or not he seems like a great guy and that his heart is in the right place.

I believe that I have read somewhere that Jessie is about 5'9" (I think he might be closer to 5'8"-5'8 1/2") and DeAnna is about 5'4". This would make sense looking at the screencaps.

[KareyR2]

Originally Posted by anders332

well - I noticed something was blurred out on something someone (Jesse maybe??) this past episode....

I find it hard to believe they would put tape on logos, doesn't make sense when blurring it out happens all the time.....for anyone who watched BB9 they know how much they had to blur out James' tats.....

I think Twilley's shirt was blurred when DeJay were getting in the helicopter. So whether it was one of the Jesse shirts, or whether Twilley's shirt had some depictions that were not suitable to primetime viewing, I don't know. I wish Jesse much luck in his life...he has been a fun guy to watch...but I don't want anyone near DeAnna's heart that could so easily cheat on another person! Thanks
Karey

[bizbachfan]

[quote=Bloomers;3039925;]I am so sorry; I try to be meticulous about reference as that was so important in my job, but I came in late in the evening and started reading until well after midnight. By that time, I could remember what I read but not where I read it. However, I am sure that is what was said. The poster was saying that Ron specified that Jessie was not questioned about his sponsorship by the guys, but he did give the producers a hard time about the clothes he was wearing; he did say that Jesse was a "brilliant businman", but that Jesse would NOT be forced into doing anything he did not want to do or did not feel passionate about.
The producers did try to make him change his clothes several times with varying success ( or lack of); I thought I understood they put the black tape on and he ripped it off ( maybe the others guys too). What I think I remember was that the other guys to a much, much lesser extent gave the producers a hard time about wearing some of Jesse's clothing as well ( maybe for the kick of it? or Ron indicated he really liked the slogans on some of the shirts, esp, the Home Wrecker - which somebody else got to wear).[/QUOTE
thank you!

[Bloomers]

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Originally Posted by Bloomers

I am so sorry; I try to be meticulous about reference as that was so important in my job, but I came in late in the evening and started reading until well after midnight. By that time, I could remember what I read but not where I read it. However, I am sure that is what was said. The poster was saying that Ron specified that Jessie was not questioned about his sponsorship by the guys, but he did give the producers a hard time about the clothes he was wearing; he did say that Jesse was a "brilliant businman", but that Jesse would NOT be forced into doing anything he did not want to do or did not feel passionate about.
The producers did try to make him change his clothes several times with varying success ( or lack of); I thought I understood they put the black tape on and he ripped it off ( maybe the others guys too). What I think I remember was that the other guys to a much, much lesser extent gave the producers a hard time about wearing some of Jesse's clothing as well ( maybe for the kick of it? or Ron indicated he really liked the slogans on some of the shirts, esp, the Home Wrecker - which somebody else got to wear).[/QUOTE
thank you!

You're welcome. Although like everybody who frequents a message board, by nature I too am opinionated - it is the nature of the beast - however, I try as much as possible when I am relaying facts to be as impartial and accurate as possible. Now when I am giving my own opinion......

Edited to add: I will try to perhaps be accurate when I give my own opinion - I surely don't promise impartial!