Jesse **SPOILERS**

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by Jammie

I back this 100% as authentic and NOT speculation. I'll even go so far as to say Jesse text messaged Megan on his way to CO telling her he LOVED her and MISSED her and couldn't wait to get back home to be with her. Then, once reaching F2, he broke up via an email with a producer looking over his shoulder.

However, I know you are going to believe what you want. Poor Jesse, it wasn't his fault. It was mean ole Megan's fault.

OUCH!! Even if he didn't kiss DeAnna, we all heard him say all those things to her about love and at the very, very least insinuating that it felt very real to him - like the real deal, dude.
He was talking out of both sides of his mouth, and that has to hurt both women. With what we know about one of the women to date, we can tell it made her mad as a hornet when she found out he was double dealing. Usually the next step past hurt is anger, and I would not be surprised if that is what the other one will feel after seeing what we all saw of their interactions.

As for Jesse, he is in a trap of his own making.



Oh what a tangled web we weave,
When first we practise to deceive!

Sir Walter Scott, Marmion, Canto vi. Stanza 17.
Scottish author & novelist (1771 - 1832)

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[bizbachfan]

Originally Posted by ligiacristi

These rumors are so confusing, first he texted her when in his HTD, then it's her HTD, then it's an email he sent on FD, LCD or wherever the wind blows

BizBachfan post makes sense...
Amy4bama, keep writing, I love ur posts!!!!!

yes amy don't go and thanks ligia!

[Specialized]

[quote=bizbachfan...
Its kind of funny so many ready to condemn Jesse for having a GF but actually this whole show is based on dating multiple people at same time okay I know its different but still its rather ironic.[/QUOTE]

It is ironic, and I always prefer to hear two sides of the story. The strange thing here though, is that Jesse is getting a great edit on the show up to this point. He comes across as a very likable guy. I know that when Richard left the show he was pulling for either Jeremy or Jesse. He spent the first week in the mansion with both of them, and probably got to know them quite well. Whatever happens, I get the impression that Jesse will land on two feet after this, just like he does in his snowboard jumps.

[bizbachfan]

Is there anyone on the board who knew personally alleged ex GF prior to the show and not just a chance meeting one time? because seriously for all we know the zero gloves folks could tell us anything they want and befriend a bunch of posters etc.

I am not saying there was no relationship and I am not saying the GF is lying I am just saying we have no way of knowing the details, the things like he told her her loved and could not wait to be back with her, even if you were forwarded an email how could you verify it?

and how come Jesse was allowed free email time throughout the whole show?

this post is not directed at anyone poster, I know there are a lot who have contacted zero/megan and I am sure you are convinced.
I am just saying there appears to be a high level of trust for someone who is not even on the show, who willingly shares such details of their personal life with posters on a msg board.

JMO, thanks for letting me vent, I am not saying it couldn't all be true, but just playing as Jesse says "devils' advocate"

[bizbachfan]

Originally Posted by Specialized

It is ironic, and I always prefer to hear two sides of the story. The strange thing here though, is that Jesse is getting a great edit on the show up to this point. He comes across as a very likable guy. I know that when Richard left the show he was pulling for either Jeremy or Jesse. He spent the first week in the mansion with both of them, and probably got to know them quite well. Whatever happens, I get the impression that Jesse will land on two feet after this, just like he does in his snowboard jumps.

Well said, he will be fine, so is Megan and I am sure Deanna, but would be nice to get his side since this controversy has been brewing all season

[amy4bama]

Originally Posted by bizbachfan

yes amy don't go and thanks ligia!

Thanks guys.. I'll try to keep my emotions under control and still post. I just get really frustrated. Maybe its because I feel more emotionally invested in this Bachelorette more so than any of the other Bachelor/Bachlorette seasons. Jesse just got me from the beginning (I think maybe it is because he reminds me of guys I dated when I was younger).

[realityfan778]

Ok these are all ifs but the speculation is that she may not given Jeremy a FD invite but if she's only feeling a friendship with Jesse does he get an FD invite and if so...how awkward will that be? Especially if she is only feeling a friendship vibe. Are they going to hang out and watch movies like "friends"?

[bizbachfan]

Originally Posted by realityfan778

Ok these are all ifs but the speculation is that she may not given Jeremy a FD invite but if she's only feeling a friendship with Jesse does he get an FD invite and if so...how awkward will that be? Especially if she is only feeling a friendship vibe. Are they going to hang out and watch movies like "friends"?

it will be interesting to see

[Ryvetted]

Obviously Megan chose to promote this way.
She's not the victim. She's not level-headed business-wise/relationship-wise or innocent in this case.

[northernviewer]

Originally Posted by bizbachfan

I think that Megan and Jesse were playing a dangerous game. I also think that regardless of what he may have emailed Megan, (which I still have issue with the fact he emailed her during the entire show by the way), Jesse and Megan's relationship was not that solid. From the info on her myspace, her co. website, etc. they hooked up in vegas end of jan and live 12 hours apart. He was in Iowa in March for a business thing and surely saw her then. During this time Megan was also traveling a lot, etc. So Feb/March they probably had a few opportunities to see each other. Perhaps Jesse had already signed up for the show. Megan was supportive because it did benefit her. Jesse figured he would not make it far and did not believe he could fall for anyone, but he did. (why else break up with Megan?)

I am sorry Megan got hurt, but she also seems to be doing just fine and benefited from this in a business way. I am sure she would rather not have had her heart broken. However I still find it odd that someone would share all the details of her relationship with posters on a reality tv show board. JMO no offense. Also her sister writing about it on their site and even calling Megan's ex husband-a starter husband seemed rather cruel to the ex.
Now I don't know the actual facts, details of any of it, but it would seem to me both Megan (wonderful as she is) and Jesse took part in a deception.

Jesse should not have gone on the show with a GF and should have refused a rose at least at the 6/4 split

Who knows though? Perhaps producers begged him to stay, D knew she was choosing Jason and was okay with it.

Perhaps they forced him to break up with Megan since no one is supposed to know outcome of show and since he was emailing megan and they found out they made him break up to stop the flow of info to her. Maybe he wants to get back with Megan and is forbidden to contact her since the GF rumor leaked so early and Megan is so forthcoming with info. Yes she could blast him, but she did not need to there were a few "in the know" posters doing it for her on here and other boards, so regardless if she wanted the info out there it got out there, as well as her myspace page and the co's website.

Jesse is no saint and probably should not have gone on show, but maybe he did it on a lark and fell in love and actually got hurt too.
Megan and co. seem to have forgiven him and are playing up his appearance and everyone made out okay. If D chose Jason then she is okay too.

If she chose Jesse maybe they really did fall in love and love conquers all. Will be interesting to find out

I totally agree with the underlined part (not that I disagree with the rest ) I don't think Meghan is as innocent as she says she is. Of course she's going to deny it, I wouln't expect anything different but I for my part, don't believe a word she says - it could be true but when you look at the situation as a whole.... they both took part in the deception and I don't feel one bit sorry for the girl... anybody that let's her boyfriend take part in a dating show on national television needs to get their head read JMO

(I've learned over the years not to believe everything a stranger on the message board says - and I sure wouldn't give them my phone numuber! - but hey, that's just me - I'm going to stay sceptical until I see the proof)