Jason **SPOILERS**

[bizbachfan]

since Jason knows Bevin from Andy season and obviously watched Deanna's he must know a lot of what goes with doing the show

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[K9Mom]

Originally Posted by bizbachfan

since Jason knows Bevin from Andy season and obviously watched Deanna's he must know a lot of what goes with doing the show

I'm not so sure about that. I don't keep up with girls who were my bridesmaids...and add to that most likely Bevin was a friend of the ex-wife, not him. There's no way to tell how much Jason knew/knows about this show. It's all speculation at best.

[Secret]

Originally Posted by bizbachfan

since Jason knows Bevin from Andy season and obviously watched Deanna's he must know a lot of what goes with doing the show

Well, I gathered that Bevin was actually a friend of the bride, because they worked at the same restaurant together back when they originally were engaged (someone on another board mentioned that Bevin worked at the restaurant back then, too, as a bartender). That's not to say that Bevin isn't still in contact with Jason in some way, but I doubt he's exactly an insider into the way the show operates.

What K9Mom said!

[bizbachfan]

if I were going on a reality show and knew anyone remotely connected with it I would try to contact them, I would also research online, etc, and if I was a single parent I definitely would

[drewmatt]

Originally Posted by K9Mom

I give him the benefit of the doubt. Before coming to boards like this one I had no idea about producer manipulation and such. Call me naive...I was. Perhaps Jason was naive to the process as well...and with the best of intentions allowed them to film his real life with his son for the introduction. At first glance that seems innocent enough, I know I would not have thought about all of the ramifications of doing it if I did not read these boards.

You know, it could be that the scenes with Ty weren't filmed until after the FRC. We just don't know the full story.

[Capegal]

Jason is a very smart and intelligent guy - I have no doubt that he definitely weighed all the pros and cons of agreeing to be one of the bach's - and was well versed as well. I would not doubt that he may have contacted someone with the knowledge to help him make the decision that he has made. I have no doubt that there is some type of agreement as to how his son is viewed/filmed as well. IMHO he was very well versed on this whole process. I have absolutely no doubts that his son was left with very caring and loving caregivers. I have no doubt that Jason took all of this into perspective before he agreed to do this.

I also think he really wanted the opportunity to meet D - and this was the only manner in which to do so. He felt that taking this risk was possibly well worth it. There are so many others in the world that have done similar (and what some deem to be crazy) things like this - and many with great outcomes. Sometimes life and happiness require taking risks (as Andy Baldwin so nicely stated ) Many of us have taken risks in our lives - in order to achieve the outcome that we may really want - I know I have - and don't regret a single moment of it. For some - they never take any risks - that is a choice we all decide to do or not.

I honestly believe there is no trauma - or anything even close to that - for Jason's son - at this point. From what I have seen - Jason is a wonderful - caring and compassionate dad. For me - the judgement of him being anything less is just speculation by people who don't know him and have no real clue of who/what he really is. I tend to believe the positive - until proven beyond any reasonable doubt - otherwise.

When my own Capekids were young - my Capeguy had to leave home for weeks at a time - they coped very well with it and it was actually alot more difficult on me than it was on them - but we made sure that family time was really important when he was home - we set priorities regarding how that worked - and it did - and my Capekids never felt abandoned as well. I have no doubt that there are arrangements for Jason and his son to communicate during his time away.

[mamaspy]

Originally Posted by K9Mom

I'm not so sure about that. I don't keep up with girls who were my bridesmaids...and add to that most likely Bevin was a friend of the ex-wife, not him. There's no way to tell how much Jason knew/knows about this show. It's all speculation at best.

Jason was at least an aquaintance of Bevin's even if she was a friend of his ex. I think if someone I knew even in passing was on a reality show I would watch- and I wouldn't forget how Bevin was editted and the 'would you like to live here with me' and the 'I love you' and then the let down at the FRC when she was too upset to even speak to Andy. And then Jason must've watched Bach 11 to know enough about Deanna that he would leave his son for the chance to meet her. So I'm 'speculating' that he has at least some idea of how the show works. Didn't anyone else feel he looked like he was 'on a mission' when he entered the room and circled the couch to take Deanna for some alone time? Because he knew he had to get 'one on one' time. The guy knows the drill. They all do. JMO.

[2observe]

Originally Posted by skylighter

You said that the emphasis on Jason being a single dad was giving him the kind of edit that makes him unlikely to be F1. I gave a possible scenario of how that "single-dad emphasis" could work very well into him being F1, given DeAnna's backstory. This is all within the context of the world that the show has created. If you want to talk about the "real world," I can come up with plenty of reasons why DeAnna could have problems making a relationship work no matter which bachelor she chooses.

True, but Jason appeared a little bit "too" desperate for that possible scenario to be believable to me. Especially with him saying that he gets really impatient for things that he wants. Since we saw DeAnna's actions in the house (during Brad's show), can you even image what would happen if her and Jason they had a argument? But I do understand your point.

[2observe]

Originally Posted by jelle

Why is no one disturbed that Jason put his kid on realty tv to make his edit/image better? I am sure that ABC loved it that he was willing to pimp out his kid for ratings, but somehow that smacks of poor parenting judgement. There is no reason that they could not have done the scenes without involving the child. Why would you use your child to set up the "good but lonely father" persona to go date a hot chick on tv and be gone for six weeks? His child is only three.
We haven't seen anyone else's child filmed (but they have been talked about), and even Amanda kept her parents hidden ... as did Ian.

Sorry for the blasphemy, but I think he made a poor choice - even if those scenes were filmed at the end of the show after the child had met Deanna.

ITA. You hit home on some of what I was trying to make in my original post.

[Maidenlady]

Originally Posted by 2observe

True, but Jason appeared a little bit "too" desperate for that possible scenario to be believable to me. Especially with him saying that he gets really impatient for things that he wants. Since we saw DeAnna's actions in the house (during Brad's show), can you even image what would happen if her and Jason they had a argument? But I do understand your point.

ok I having problem with my back so can not stay on computer long at time
so please tell me is jason still a favor to win f1 ot f2 or have you found out something bad about him. I got very little time to search through so many post on Jason but he my favorite so far so can someone please fill me in on what happen with Jason at this stage of show ?