Jason **SPOILERS**

[candimichele]

Originally Posted by ProudKsGrandma

I think the fact that D didn't immediately kick Jason to the curb at the next rose ceremony after finding out about the son, shows she was atleast open to dating a man w child, and getting to know Jason better. I imagine when she went to his HTD she tried to figure out, can I fit into this or not. If no, I think Jason would go out at F-4.

Since we hear that Jeremey may go (his choice perhaps at F4), then the soonest Jason could go (if she wanted him gone) would be F-3. If he makes that cut, he is a keeper. While its always possible she could chose the other guys, (any other guy without a child), after seeing Jason's life, she either wants the package or she doesn't. I think she will know it with the HTD.

ITA with your post.. IF she wouldn't want to date a divorced single dad, he would leave at the third RC. Then if she doesn't see herself choosing Jason, after meeting Ty and his family, I think she would let him go at F4 but IF Graham's rumor is true that he has to leave at F4 then she would let Jason go at F3 leaving Jeremy and Jesse as the F2!

I haven't heard anything about Jeremy wanting to leave on his own at F4.. That rumor is for Graham..

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[ProudKsGrandma]

Originally Posted by candimichele

ITA with your first paragraph.. IF she wouldn't want to date a divorced single dad, he would leave at the third RC. Then if she doesn't see herself choosing Jason, after meeting Ty and his family, I think she would let him go at F4 but IF Graham's rumor is true that he has to leave at F4 then she would let Jason go at F3 leaving Jeremy and Jesse as the F2!

I haven't heard anything about Jeremy wanting to leave on his own at F4.. That rumor is for Graham..

ITA. That's what I was trying to say, but got tripped up over my tongue/fingers, ha.

[nennie]

Originally Posted by girlsmom

I guess I'm a hard-liner when it comes to small children. I feel that he didn't ask to be born and that his needs should always come first. I know not everyone agrees. This is why I feel that Jason's future wife marries his son as much as he marries him. I feel for adults with small children, but they MUST, imo, do the right thing by their children always. This little guy need a step mom who wants to be his mom as much as she wants to be his dad's wife, imo. This is particularly true given the apparent custody situation. jmo

I so totally agree with you. I am raising my great niece and nephew who are 5 & 4 and their needs come before mine. Like you said they didn't ask to be born. My daughter also married a man with a 3 yr. old and she knew going in that he was just as vitally important as her relationship with her husband. It is a lot to think about.

[girlsmom]

Originally Posted by nennie

I so totally agree with you. I am raising my great niece and nephew who are 5 & 4 and their needs come before mine. Like you said they didn't ask to be born. My daughter also married a man with a 3 yr. old and she knew going in that he was just as vitally important as her relationship with her husband. It is a lot to think about.

Wow, Bless you for raising your little ones. I'm wondering if the full impact might not occur to DeAnna until later, after all she wouldn't have seen the little boy. I just sympathize with the difficulty of DeAnna falling in love with the father of a little boy. I'll bet we will see some dramatic moment relating to his son, Fleiss couldn't resist, since we know from SCs that Jason goes to at least F2.

o.k. I'll get off my about this and I hope that all participants are doing well now.

[IvoryMist]

Originally Posted by girlsmom

Wow, Bless you for raising your little ones. I'm wondering if the full impact might not occur to DeAnna until later, after all she wouldn't have seen the little boy. I just sympathize with the difficulty of DeAnna falling in love with the father of a little boy. I'll bet we will see some dramatic moment relating to his son, Fleiss couldn't resist, since we know from SCs that Jason goes to at least F2.

o.k. I'll get off my about this and I hope that all participants are doing well now.

Three year olds are so easy to fall in love with...that should not be a problem....they might just have to get him a brother or a sister to be one happy family!

[Estella]

Originally Posted by shirin

Thanks you all for answering my questions.
But how on the earth Jess can be F2?,WOW
Is she out of her mind?
Even I canot picture her with Sean.
I prefer Jason,Jermy and Graham.

I wouldn't say so... DeAnna has a good head on her shoulders, if she choses to be with Jesse in the end, I trust her that she knows what she's doing.
Right now I think Jason would be the better choice out of those two, even with the three-year-old child... but DeAnna got to know those guys and we didn't, so I guess she would know best who is right for her.

Originally Posted by IvoryMist

Three year olds are so easy to fall in love with...that should not be a problem....they might just have to get him a brother or a sister to be one happy family!

Lol... the way you worded this just cracked me up!!! But I have to say Jason and DeAnna would probably make adorable, beautiful babies

[nennie]

Originally Posted by Estella

I wouldn't say so... DeAnna has a good head on her shoulders, if she choses to be with Jesse in the end, I trust her that she knows what she's doing.
Right now I think Jason would be the better choice out of those two, even with the three-year-old child... but DeAnna got to know those guys and we didn't, so I guess she would know best who is right for her.



Lol... the way you worded this just cracked me up!!! But I have to say Jason and DeAnna would probably make adorable, beautiful babies

They would make adorable babies.

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Originally Posted by who_me?

I think we are all protective of D. We don't want her heart broken again. For myself, I was thinking how could this great looking guy, great job, family oriented guy with child be single? What was going on? What was wrong? Now that we have atleast some knowledge of what happened, I find myself cheering him on, wishing him the best. While I agree, we don't need to know the intimate details of what went wrong, just a broad stroke "highlights", did it for me.

This is what I said earlier when I opened a can of worms:

I simply wondered how much Ty's mother was involved and how that would effect DeAnna. How would she view that in relationship to Jason?
If you combine my statement with the emphasized statement above, you can better understand how I was trying to approach one aspect of this complicated situation, a similar one of which I am intimately acquainted.

While it is heartwarming to know that Jason is not a person who dumped his wife for greener pastures, I said I didn't need details. In essence I was trying to understand the basic stepmom arrangement to try and determine how that might effect DeAnna's view and ultimate decision.

A major purpose involved in the spoiler board is speculation. That is one of the main reasons that we "grace" this board. I think it is possible to disagree with others' viewpoints and speculations without becoming the judge and jury that informs them that their speculations are wrong. I have noticed that from time to time, a poster will post his/her speculation, and all of a sudden the possee and mob arrive ready to lynch the person with the divergent or opposing speculation. This board has long been noted for its tolerance, and I think it is a shame for it to begin to lose that reputation.

[shirin]

I think she picked Jess as F2 because she didnt have any other choice not because she found somthing in him.
If Graham had to leave for any reason and Jeremy was not that in to De,so De didnt have any other choice.

[Estella]

Originally Posted by shirin

I think she picked Jess as F2 because she didnt have any other choice not because she found somthing in him.
If Graham had to leave for any reason and Jeremy was not that in to De,so De didnt have any other choice.

I can understand your thoughts about Jesse, Jason and the other guys, Shirin, although I don't dislike either of them. Jason sure appears to be more "marriage material" than Jesse. But this is not American Idol, this is not about who the viewers think is "the best". DeAnna is the only judge who's opinion counts on this show, and I know that on American Idol, I often don't share the judges' opinion (or that of the voters...). And if DeAnna thinks Jason is the right guy for her, I guess he is, but the same is true for Jesse. We can have our opinion and nobody here has to agree with each other or with DeAnna, but in the end it's DeAnna's choice...