Jason **SPOILERS**

[cantstopwatchin]

Originally Posted by CoolCruiser

Let's face it.
Jason just IS a wonderful person.
He exudes love.

I have no questions about whether Ty is loved... He IS loved!
And Dee would do well to count her blessings for snagging a guy as great as Jason...He has more than enough love to share for the three of them.

Sure he'll have flaws... we all do, but it is obvious that Jason brings a healthy maturity to the table. A rare find these days.

Her mom would be so pleased.

The eyes don't lie. The eyes are the mirror of the soul.
His eyes speak volumes about who the inner Jason is.

Dee has found herself a TREASURE...or should I say that the treasure found her

I LOVE this post, CoolCruiser!!

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[BachfanNY]

Originally Posted by Shannonm93

Absolutely there is a huge difference, but Jason clearly saw something in De that he was attracted to thus prompting him to e-mail the producers on his own (nobody nominated him which is usually how it is done ... he contact them himself) about the show and about her. Sure he could have found and dated a woman in Seattle, but he obviously saw something in her that got his attention and made him want to do this. Maybe I'm a bit gullible to say and believe this, but I believe De & Jason are soulmates and if this was how they were destined to meet, then this was how they were destined to meet. It's not an ideal way to meet someone given that it did take him away from his son (which was clearly difficult for him) and given the show's track record, but maybe it was just meant to be.

Just want to say that I love this about Jason. This, to me, is incredibly romantic. He saw what she went through and he wants to be the one to love her...incredible! Its like he was thinking "I'm going to show you what true love is ALL about...and I'm not going to let you down..."
awe man, I think I feel a hot flash coming on (and I'm only 26!)...

[BachfanNY]

Originally Posted by cantstopwatchin

LOL- that's for sure. DH listens while on his laptop and always picks out when PIs or unseen sayings have been spliced together, which always cracks me up b/c he swears that he's not interested...

yeah mine knows that its ALL silence between 8pm & 10pm...no side comments, no questions. its listening time.

[talldede]

Originally Posted by natashapierre

What kind of dad is he if DeAnna comes out to Seattle for a while, gets involved with the two of them, and then realizes that, no, this ain't for her? And then not only Jason gets dumped but Ty as well.

Seems to me that if that happens he'll look like a dad who is basically a great guy and clearly really loves his son but showed very poor judgment in this case.

Count me among those who think this was a bit of a mistake on Jason's part. But that's because I really really don't think that DeAnna has a clue what she's getting into with being a stepmother in a ready-made family. I think she's carrying way too much unacknowledged painful baggage of her own to handle that situation and that she'll find this out fairly soon. I think her life experience up to now has made her become a control freak in order to cope with it, and I think few control freaks can handle 3-year-old stepchildren, even with the best will and belief in the world that they will be able to (as I believe DeAnna has.)

I don't think anyone is saying it will be easy. It will be very challenging. Jason and Ty have an incredible bond. They have routines. DeAnna will be a wonderful addition, but it will be a change for everyone. Change is difficult. Change is uncomfortable, coupled with a new city, new family, new friends. As I type this out, the reality seems daunting.

And, with all that said, I go back to interviews DeAnna has given where she says she wants someone who will work as hard as she does on a relationship. With what we've seen with Jason's emotional maturity and their ability to talk it through, I think they have a good chance.

I'm optimistic!

[natashapierre]

Originally Posted by DestinyFan

Just because Jason has a son, doesnt mean he cant have a life too. He deserves to find that love in his life that I'm sure he's been yearning for a long time now. If Deanna wasnt the one for him, I'm sure Jason would have left to be with his son. But his feelings for her started growing, and he would have been a fool not to explore that. Jason made sure his son was well taken care of by family and kept him close as he could with phone calls. It's a fact that he is a damn good and loving father. It's 6 weeks that could give them a family, not 6 years..and I'm sure he did it for Ty as much as himself.

What the heck is wrong with us as people that we think we're going to find the loves of our lives on tv shows (including tv shows with absolutely hideous track records for delivering this, I might add.)?.....

Seems to me the lesson is pretty clear by now: If you want to find the love of your life, stick to the real world and stay off television. Because even if you run into one of the few other reality-tv people who actually wants to find a relationship and not fame, the nature of the situation all by itself seems to be a bar on turning your meeting into anything substantial.

[grneyedgirl]

Originally Posted by natashapierre

What kind of dad is he if DeAnna comes out to Seattle for a while, gets involved with the two of them, and then realizes that, no, this ain't for her? And then not only Jason gets dumped but Ty as well.
Seems to me that if that happens he'll look like a dad who is basically a great guy and clearly really loves his son but showed very poor judgment in this case.

Count me among those who think this was a bit of a mistake on Jason's part. But that's because I really really don't think that DeAnna has a clue what she's getting into with being a stepmother in a ready-made family. I think she's carrying way too much unacknowledged painful baggage of her own to handle that situation and that she'll find this out fairly soon. I think her life experience up to now has made her become a control freak in order to cope with it, and I think few control freaks can handle 3-year-old stepchildren, even with the best will and belief in the world that they will be able to (as I believe DeAnna has.)

ETA: I like Jason a *lot,* by the way. He's absolutely my favorite of the remaining guys and I've liked him from the beginning. I like what we see of him and DeAnna together, too. But I do think he's made an error in judgment in this case.

Is this situation any different than any single parent who chooses to date? Should single parents not date because there is a possibility of a break up? I don't think I am understanding your point (bolded).

[Shannonm93]

Originally Posted by natashapierre

What kind of dad is he if DeAnna comes out to Seattle for a while, gets involved with the two of them, and then realizes that, no, this ain't for her? And then not only Jason gets dumped but Ty as well.

Seems to me that if that happens he'll look like a dad who is basically a great guy and clearly really loves his son but showed very poor judgment in this case.

Count me among those who think this was a bit of a mistake on Jason's part. But that's because I really really don't think that DeAnna has a clue what she's getting into with being a stepmother in a ready-made family. I think she's carrying way too much unacknowledged painful baggage of her own to handle that situation and that she'll find this out fairly soon. I think her life experience up to now has made her become a control freak in order to cope with it, and I think few control freaks can handle 3-year-old stepchildren, even with the best will and belief in the world that they will be able to (as I believe DeAnna has.)

ETA: I like Jason a *lot,* by the way. He's absolutely my favorite of the remaining guys and I've liked him from the beginning. I like what we see of him and DeAnna together, too. But I do think he's made an error in judgment in this case.

Maybe he did show poor judgement (although I have to say I disagree with that), but the same thing could've happened whether he went on "The Bachelorette" or he just met someone in Seattle. When you meet someone and start dating them no matter how it happens there are no guarantees that it will always work out. Unfortunately that's just a fact of life. JMO. Thanks!

[pajamasam]

What kind of dad is he if DeAnna comes out to Seattle for a while, gets involved with the two of them, and then realizes that, no, this ain't for her? And then not only Jason gets dumped but Ty as well.

Perhaps she would move into her own apartment for a while. That would be no different for Ty than having his dad date anyone else who lived in Seattle.

[CoolCruiser]

Just love this pic!!!

Deanna looks gorgeous and she's wearing Jason's rose. He brings out the best in her.

[talldede]

Jason has a very strong jawline. I love that feature, very masculine.