Jason **SPOILERS**

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by Secret

I agree. Until we hear the reasons from Jason, we can only speculate about how things happened. Marla was just speculating, as well. There are a huge number of things that happen to cause a divorce between "cheating" and "bored." Some of the stories I've heard would curl your toes, ladies.

Sometimes, sadly, youth really IS the reason. People follow their hearts instead of their heads and once they land they realize it isn't what they want or need. It could be anything, though.

I do agree with whoever mentioned that this adds an extra complication to things post-show. If she chooses him, Deanna would most likely have to move to WA. Huge battles happen when a parent wants to move out of state with a child and they're sharing custody (or even visitation, I think).





It sounds like this season is going to have a little bit of the good, the bad and the ugly of love. It isn't all roses, after all.

That might be what tips her to Jesse, and I feel worse about that one. I hope not, but all kinds of warning bells went off immediately and that was before I read all of the stuff.
I wish we could be assured that DeAnna would be told the background truth ( if it is the truth) about Jesse by one of the crew, but I don't know that even they know about it.

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[Lynn7]

Originally Posted by psucashcow

I have to agree with you. My husband was separated for almost a year before he even filed for divorce. I met him when the divorce was in process and we got married 6 months later. It will be 27 years on Saturday.

I've been separated for two years but, alas, no divorce yet. That pansy won't settle and has gone so far as to spend, gee, probably $2,000 in legal fees trying to get a garbage can back and I was the one who brought the money into the relationship. Men!!!

[cantstopwatchin]

Originally Posted by simplechef

I would be very surprised if Jason wins. He's got a child in SEATTLE and Deanna lives in Georgia. Unless Deanna is planning to move to Seattle, I don't see this working out.

Don't forget-- Deanna is a real estate agent. The market's not so hot down here in ATL right now....

This news is crushing-- I just can't see Jason being F1.

[NoLongerALurker]

Originally Posted by Lynn7

I've been separated for two years but, alas, no divorce yet. That pansy won't settle and has gone so far as to spend, gee, probably $2,000 in legal fees trying to get a garbage can back and I was the one who brought the money into the relationship. Men!!!

Aww, Lynn, sorry to hear that!

My aunt is going through a divorce, has been for the last year, because her husband had cheated on taxes, owing $200,000 to the government, and NEVER told her. He had stopped working and was living off of her salary (she was a teacher... not big $$).

Like your ex, he's been dragging everything out... and has also refused to move out of the house that my aunt owns! Needless to say, she is currently living with my parents. Divorces can be so nasty.

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by cantstopwatchin

Don't forget-- Deanna is a real estate agent. The market's not so hot down here in ATL right now....

This news is crushing-- I just can't see Jason being F1.

I am fearful of a man ( Jesse) if he actually took another man's wife away and then dropped her to win DeAnna on the Bachelor. Is that what we want for F1? Is that what she wants??

[cantstopwatchin]

Originally Posted by cape

Maybe Jason's wife up and left him one day ... and he was devastated by that b/c he believes marriage is forever and sacred...and he wants that in his life so he came on the show to take a chance on the BEAUTIFUL girl he saw during B11...

I hope this is what happened!!! IA with Haleysmommy-- the wording of the episode description makes it sound as though the ex up and left him with their child. If that's the case, I wouldn't question his intentions one iota.

[Lynn7]

Originally Posted by Secret

I agree. Until we hear the reasons from Jason, we can only speculate about how things happened. Marla was just speculating, as well. There are a huge number of things that happen to cause a divorce between "cheating" and "bored." Some of the stories I've heard would curl your toes, ladies.
Sometimes, sadly, youth really IS the reason. People follow their hearts instead of their heads and once they land they realize it isn't what they want or need. It could be anything, though.

I do agree with whoever mentioned that this adds an extra complication to things post-show. If she chooses him, Deanna would most likely have to move to WA. Huge battles happen when a parent wants to move out of state with a child and they're sharing custody (or even visitation, I think).

It sounds like this season is going to have a little bit of the good, the bad and the ugly of love. It isn't all roses, after all.

Yeah, like he left for Mike. The handsome shaved chest guy with model good looks

[Kresge]

Trying to remain objective here.....

Neither being divorced or having a child has fared well on The Bachelor, so I'm leary of the edit on this one. Widowed with a child might have worked because of Dee's history, but now we've found out he is divorce, I'm really skeptical.

On paper, Jesse is looking better right now. We have the leak of his swarmy ways, but the general public doesn't have that info. Fleiss may edit him as the hard working boy with big dreams (kind of like Andy) who made something of himself, is serious when necessary but fun loving and free spirited, successful in his field (he owns a couple of houses), and just looking for that special someone to complete the pic and be his travel partner.

It will be very interesting to see how this turns out.


Jeremy, Jeremy, where for art thou???

[Lynn7]

Originally Posted by Summer fun

Actually I meant I wonder if religion would be an issue between DeAnna and Jason. Not if it was an issue in the divorce. Sorry that I was unclear.

Didn't she specifically say something to Brad along the lines of (remember her list?) she wants someone who shares her faith in god or something? I don't think she said we have to have the same religion...just faith.

[marlap]

Originally Posted by simplechef

Okay, personal opinion here, but for me marlap, the first reason you gave is a legitimate reason for divorse, but the second reason is pure selfishness. Marriage vows are "till death do us part" not until we decide we'd like to persue greener pastures.

Originally Posted by longhornalum

This sounds like Bettina's reason for her divorce. It sounds pretty shallow to me.

Yikes! Not what I meant at all...I meant if they mutually agreed they made a mistake... But who knows, maybe she left him for another man--we just don't know...

Originally Posted by Bloomers

You see, though, if I were Dee I would be afraid of both of those. "You slept with her best friend? What kind of a heathen are you?"
"You divorced because you got too comfortable together? How can I ever rest easy thinking that you won't get "too comfortable" with me just like you did with her?" If a man will do it to one woman, what's to make you think he won't do it to another woman as well?

I want to hear that he is a man who is committed to the idea of marriage.

It sounds like she is going to let Jeremy go at F3, but we heard his friend say loud and clear that when he marries, he wants to go in for the long haul. That is what I want for DeAnna. It may not actually work out that way, but I want it to start out that way anyway.

Oh, I know...I'm sure she was cautious...divorce is hard period. Just that second reason is just the lesser of two evils...