Jason **SPOILERS**

[hayleysmommy]

ok..without posting too much info, it looks like the house they owned together is now where Jason lives. I found a different residence for the ex. I wonder if she left and he has custody of his child.

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[appiah01]

Originally Posted by Estella

If Jason has full custody for his son (which we don't know yet!), it might almost be smarter for him to move to Georgia with his son instead of bringing his new wife close to his ex-wife...

Deanna said she would move to TX to be with Brad. None of the men are from GA, so someone would have to move. Maybe she is old-fashioned enough that she would move to be with her chosen one. (Trista did, I probably would and I am a fairly liberated professional woman).

Single dad is the proper terminology. We call women single mothers when they are divorced and raising children. He could have joint custody but since he is unmarried, he is considered single. There is also nothing that says that his ex isn't totally supportive of him doing the show. In fact maybe their split was mutual and amicable and she encouraged him to go. Maybe she's moved on and wants him to as well. Appears her own parents divorced when she was 1 and she had a loving stepdad so maybe it's not a big deal to her.

[candimichele]

Originally Posted by hayleysmommy

ok..without posting too much info, it looks like the house they owned together is now where Jason lives. I found a different residence for the ex. I wonder if she left and he has custody of his child.

That's possible.. We really don't know what happened to cause the divorce..

[Secret]

Originally Posted by Jammie

Hey, we are all prone to the human condition. I'm going by how Fleiss usually handles a divorce edit, that's all.

Oh, I know. I am just sitting here shaking my head that we're shaking the trees and stuff just. keeps. falling. out! It's a little overwhelming.

My husband works as a family lawyer. I know divorce is sadly reality and a part of life and that people are just plain human. I hope the combination of being divorce AND being a dad helps soften the tendencies of the Fleiss a little. I think it may be a different edit than Bevin, since it's a divorced man this time. Not to say that Fleiss is sexist, but *cough*. Maybe he'll only get a small scarlet lapel pin.

[appiah01]

Originally Posted by Secret

Oh, I know. I am just sitting here shaking my head that we're shaking the trees and stuff just. keeps. falling. out! It's a little overwhelming.

My husband works as a family lawyer. I know divorce is sadly reality and a part of life and that people are just plain human. I hope the combination of being divorce AND being a dad helps soften the tendencies of the Fleiss a little. I think it may be a different edit than Bevin, since it's a divorced man this time. Not to say that Fleiss is sexist, but *cough*. Maybe he'll only get a small scarlet lapel pin.

I think Bevin also helped that along by making it such a big deal and keeping it a secret for so long and revealing it in this big reveal type way. She branded herself. Jason may be a little bit more sensitive and actually let Deanna know he was married before, especially because he has a child.

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I don't think the divorce is a big issue - it takes a while for divorces to be finalized...I highly doubt the filed right away and then six months for it to go through - they probably have not been together for over a year now...

[marlap]

I also personally think, much better someone divorced than a comittment-phobe...

I'm sure Jason's circumstances for divorce were reasonable if Dee likes enough to take him a ways.

Big difference between:

"My wife divorced me because I slept with her best friend"

and

"My wife and I divorced because we realized we had gotten too comfortable and were'nt really each other's soulmates, but I will always care for her, she's a good person."

Originally Posted by appiah01

I think Bevin also helped that along by making it such a big deal and keeping it a secret for so long and revealing it in this big reveal type way. She branded herself. Jason may be a little bit more sensitive and actually let Deanna know he was married before, especially because he has a child.

Yes, I predict he lets her know the first night...

[simplechef]

Okay, personal opinion here, but for me marlap, the first reason you gave is a legitimate reason for divorse, but the second reason is pure selfishness. Marriage vows are "till death do us part" not until we decide we'd like to persue greener pastures.

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by marlap

I also personally think, much better someone divorced than a comittment-phobe...

I'm sure Jason's circumstances for divorce were reasonable if Dee likes enough to take him a ways.

Big difference between:

"My wife divorced me because I slept with her best friend"

and

"My wife and I divorced because we realized we had gotten too comfortable and were'nt really each other's soulmates, but I will always care for her, she's a good person."

You see, though, if I were Dee I would be afraid of both of those. "You slept with her best friend? What kind of a heathen are you?"
"You divorced because you got too comfortable together? How can I ever rest easy thinking that you won't get "too comfortable" with me just like you did with her?" If a man will do it to one woman, what's to make you think he won't do it to another woman as well?

I want to hear that he is a man who is committed to the idea of marriage.

It sounds like she is going to let Jeremy go at F3, but we heard his friend say loud and clear that when he marries, he wants to go in for the long haul. That is what I want for DeAnna. It may not actually work out that way, but I want it to start out that way anyway.

[Lynn7]

Originally Posted by Estella

They got married in 2003. The child is three years old so it was born in late 2004/early 2005... if they were only married for a year, they would have been divorced while she was pregnant... seems unlikely to me especially because they make us believe that the boy is living with Jason (I personally wouldn't call a guy a "single dad" if he only got to see his son every second weekend).

Geezz...maybe Jason was suspicious about parternity and the marriage broke down. Later, he appears on Maury and finds out the child *is* his after all but the trust was broken and no chance to repair the failed marriage

Regardless, he sounds like a hopeless romantic given the description of his proposal to his first wife.