Jason **SPOILERS**

[Alelady]

I just have to say that I agree with so many of the other posters that I will be completely and utterly devastated if she doesn't pick Jason after last night. My hope going into last night's episode, was that we would see the beginning of a love story, and MY OH MY, did we ever!!! I have NEVER been this attached to a bachelor, and wanting so much for a couple to be together (even though Trista and Ryan were a close 2nd).

I watched their date and then the part when she had the star named after Ty over and over and over last night (need to get more coffee, as I'm very tired), and I just can't get enough! She just looks so happy and at ease when she is with him. I see her initiating so much more intimate contact with him (holding his hand, snuggling with him in the helicopter), and her eyes seem to always be smiling when she is looking at him.

Please, oh Please, don't let us get Fleissed, and may these two end up together!!! Go DeJay!!!!

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[cupcakes]

Aww...I loved, loved, loved their date together! I will admit I was crying throughout most of it...It was one of the most real dates I have seen on this show in a long time. I can't wait to see more of their interaction together DeAnna giving him the star certificate named after Ty was such a sweet moment!

[zen4]

There isn't much left for me to add after reading all the wonderful posts, other than WOW on that date . I don't have the slightest doubt that he is F1. I'd say Jesse, who? Jesse has impressed me so far but all the girlfriend and sponsors talk just turns me off completely and I just don't see him as a competition to Jason. It's a done deal for me .

[sweet pea]

Originally Posted by CorgisRule

Could that have been done on purpose so she could have the alone time with jason, specially after what happened on there 1 on 1 date

I was thinking the very same thing CorgisRule, maybe De wants more alone time with Jason I believe she knows what she wants already and she does not want to string anyone along! On another note, did anyone notice when she ask to see Jason before the RC, nobody sniped he was getting extra time like they do with Jeremy?
I am definitely on the golf cart with DeJay

[angelic_one2002]

It was obvious to me from watching Deanna's date with Jason that he is the final one. It's a done deal for me, as well.

[natashapierre]

Originally Posted by Shannonm93

Just had a thought. When De finished telling Jason about her mom and she says that in 26 years she has never had a boyfriend that asked her about that and Jason asked her why and she said "probably because the weren't the right one" ... to me that just spoke volumes and I wonder if Fleiss was trying to give us a clue and that Jason is the one, which I feel certain he is.

Sounds right to me.

But what a bunch of loser boyfriends she must have had in the past. Why would you go on dating people who weren't interested enough to ask you about maybe the most important -- and soul-shaping -- thing that's ever happened to you in your life? No wonder she threw out so many of the kind-seeming, lower-key guys at the very start of this -- she must have some kind of inbred taste for jerks. ... Maybe liking Jason is a sign that she's now figuring things out and has gotten beyond that a bit.

[redrose]

Originally Posted by Spoil Me

I know, it was freaking awesome, I watched it about 6 freaking times and that was just last night

What I noticed was the body language between them.
Deanna was always touching him (except at dinner) - did you notice when the helicopter arrived and they were watching it land - Jason did a fist pump and D had her hand on his back. When she hugged him hello, she stroked his arm - it was really funny, it was like she hugged him, felt his bicep and thought - "yum - must feel that again and ran her hand down his arm again There is something very honest and real developing between them and I hope to heck that we are not being Fleissed!!!

Jason has been one of my favorites, but he moved to my favorite Bachelor ever - well except for Ryan when he did the following two things:

• My father passed away almost 5 weeks ago and what absolutely struck me about Jason, was he didn't say "sorry" when D was telling him about her moms' passing, he asked her "what she would say to her mom now" - I LOVED that.
• He asked her permission to kiss her
• He is not afraid to show his emotions - nothing sexier than that!

There was a PI that Jason gave before they left on the date (this may have already been posted - if so, I apologise, I still need to go back and catch up on all the posts.) - anyway he was wearing a black sweater (I think) and he was very tan - I think this was in the Bahamas - he says something about I sacrificed everything for love, but I miss Ty like crazy (not a direct quote) Does someone have the direct quote?

Yup, I just cannot see Deanna choosing anyone other than Jason after that date .

And Deanna naming a star after Ty - my heart melted and the tears flowed ... I cannot wait to see the rest of their love story develop ...

I need a favor please ... when Deanna told Jason that helicopter was their ride and everyone stood up - did you all see how Jason jumped up in excitement and then immediately turned around to look for Deanna - at the same time she was turning around looking for him. There were some guys between them - but they only had eyes for each other (trust me, I watched that in slo mo each of the 6 times I rewatched their date. If anyone could post screen caps of that - I would be forever grateful

Spoil Me this is not long at all! Awesome recap of their date - had to be one of the, if not the most 'real' and substantive date ever shown on this show. If their relationship progresses as well as we hope and expect it to and Jason is indeed F1, then he certainly is going to give Ryan a run for his money for title of 'Best Bachelor Ever.'

Unfortunately I can't do screencaps but hopefully someone (calling K9Mom!) can also cap the PI you're referring to. I also think it's in the Bahamas, in what looks to be a hotel room (it's not the mansion decor), and he's got the scruff going on, similar to the kayak cap. His exact words are "I've sacrificed the biggest thing in my life for love."

Oh, and DeAnna was most definitely all over him in the helicopter.

[natashapierre]

Originally Posted by finalefan

Also, I think it's interesting, in light of some of the criticisms Deanna gets about being "harsh," etc., to find out that no one's ever asked her to talk about her mom before. Some people commenting on this show seem to think that Deanna's too strong. But I guess my point is, maybe no one's ever invited her to be safely vulnerable before?

That's my guess, too. And because of how her life went early on, it takes a LOT for her to feel safe enough to be vulnerable. And, because she's coped with her life by trying to look and be in control all the time, people are less likely to go out of their way to make her feel safely vulnerable because they mistake her need for control for being strong and not really having any needs, so they think that she wouldn't need or welcome the chance to be vulnerable.

I guess I've decided that DeAnna is me.

That being the case, it's great that being with Jason brought the story out as it did. I don't see how anybody else can be the F1 now. ... I'm worried about the Seattle thing though, especially since she said sometime this episode that she does want to stay fairly near her family.

[Vet_Tech]

Originally Posted by natashapierre

That's my guess, too. And because of how her life went early on, it takes a LOT for her to feel safe enough to be vulnerable. And, because she's coped with her life by trying to look and be in control all the time, people are less likely to go out of their way to make her feel safely vulnerable because they mistake her need for control for being strong and not really having any needs, so they think that she wouldn't need or welcome the chance to be vulnerable.

I guess I've decided that DeAnna is me.

That being the case, it's great that being with Jason brought the story out as it did. I don't see how anybody else can be the F1 now. ... I'm worried about the Seattle thing though, especially since she said sometime this episode that she does want to stay fairly near her family.

She said hat when Jeremy asked her if she would be willing to move to Dallas, she said that her family is a big part of her life and that she doesn't want to be far from them, but she said that it's time for a change and that whom ever she choses to be with, she will move....

[Mamai]

Even my husband, who never picks a favorite and doesn't speculate, said watching their date, "wow, that was really romantic, did you see the way they looked at eachother, he's definitely the F1."

That was a great date, I can't wait to watch it again. I really liked Jason from the beginning, but I liked so many of the guys (and still do) and wasn't going to pick a favorite, now he's definitely my fav!

You know how the guys are talking during her date about how having a son will hurt him? Don't you wish they would have shown their reaction when he came back "rosed?"

I think their reasoning was off in why she wouldn't pick him. They saw him having a son as a deterrent for her. I really think when women are dating, they are constantly thinking, "Is this guy father material?" (If they, in fact, want children and De does) No need to imagine with Jason, he's already a father and he showed he is a dedicated, loving father. What more can she ask for? Maybe her desire for children outweighs her hesitation to getting involved with a man with a child and an ex!

I was skeptical and didn't want her to string a long a man with a child, but now I'm seeing a real connection with them. Go DeJay!!!