Jason **SPOILERS**

[SkateMom]

Originally Posted by musicmom

Thank you, Skatemom, for saying what I was thinking in a very gentle, nice way! Based on what De has said, the "whole package" for her is someone who has worked through his emotional baggage, and is ready to move forward in a realtionship with no hesitation. I feel Jeremy is carrying alot of undealt with grief over his parents (and I don't blame for that one bit), and that might hinder their relationship. Whatever the reason, I trust Deanna to follow her instinct about which connection is the strongest and has the most potential.

I understand how each of us becomes "attached" to these guys and it isn't fair to say that one is better than the other. I think DeAnna can relate and empathize with Jeremy, and yes, he is great looking. But I think DeAnna may not feel what she wants to feel with Jeremy. I will feel just as upset when Jeremy leaves.

As for Jason, I have to admit, there have been times when I think he's not absolutely "over-the-top" good-looking. I find him extremely attractive when he has a little scruff on him and is dressed more casually. I think he looks younger when he's casual and older when he's in his suit - a real Clark Kent/Superman kind of thing I guess.

I think I need to cool off in my pool today!

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[candimichele]

Originally Posted by SkateMom

I understand how each of us becomes "attached" to these guys and it isn't fair to say that one is better than the other. I think DeAnna can relate and empathize with Jeremy, and yes, he is great looking. But I think DeAnna may not feel what she wants to feel with Jeremy. I will feel just as upset when Jeremy leaves.

As for Jason, I have to admit, there have been times when I think he's not absolutely "over-the-top" good-looking. I find him extremely attractive when he has a little scruff on him and is dressed more casually. I think he looks younger when he's casual and older when he's in his suit - a real Clark Kent/Superman kind of thing I guess.

I think I need to cool off in my pool today!

I feel the same way. I'm actually wondering WHY all the dates he has gone on so far has him wearing a suit, I rather see him in casual clothes

[SkateMom]

Originally Posted by Secret

No, I didn't see that! I wonder if anyone caught it to cap it? I seriously need to rewatch the previous episode. I think she relaxes and is less serious when she's with Jason. Hopefully that trend continues.

I didn't see any new caps here on FORT. The preview starts off by saying that Bachelorette is on at 8:00 EST instead of our usual 9:00. Then shows DeAnna in the carriage ride with Richard (not looking very interested), then her and Jason taking off in the helicopter, then toasting. Then they show the guys going on the Ellen show.

The conversations between DeAnna and Jason are relaxed and she maintains her eye contact with him. She does get quite giddy and fidgets with her hands and neck alot - love tension maybe. She giggles differently with him, in a flirty way.

I wonder though, when Jason poses the question to DeAnna "so, you want to have kids?"....I can only assume that she would have responded shortly after with "do you want kids too?". Maybe she did and we just didn't hear it. I hope to read her reaction to his secret to really tell if she may have known about this earlier.

Hopefully when Jason moves into the mansion we will see alot of one-on-one time between them in the mansion. We've seen little to nothing of mansion time with Jesse, Jeremy, and Richard.

[SkateMom]

Originally Posted by candimichele

I feel the same way. I'm actually wondering WHY all the dates he has gone on so far has him wearing a suit, I rather see him in casual clothes

I'd rather see him jogging in just his shorts - no shirt. Maybe that's soon to come during the pool scenes and the beach scenes. Get the fire extinguisher ready.

[appiah01]

One thing I notice with the interaction between Jason and Deanna is just how normal they seem. To me it looks like two regular people dating as opposed to the overinflated drama and intense interactions between Deanna and some of the other guys. J and De seem as if they are just two regular people who are getting to know each other. That may not look like the epic fairytale with dramatic twists and turns but to me it looks like reality and I prefer that over a fake romance with no grounding in real life or normal male/female behavior.

Also with Jason Deanna is not the agressor. I am a very Type A, alpha female but I love when a guy assumes some control over our interaction. All of the exchanges we have seen between De and Jason have shown him being the agressor, albeit in a fairly gentle fashion. He asks her questions as opposed to the other way around. Part of why Deanna seems as if she is interviewing the guys is because of the fact that they don't seemingly take control and lead the conversation. Jason does that making their interactions seem more balanced to me. Even the way he hugs her seems protective. It's hard to judge someone's character or personality based upon 2 episodes of a tv show but he seems like the type of guy who would help Deanna relax and have fun while also feeling taken care of and not having to always take the lead.

Not for nothing, he's adorable to me and just has a very kind face and smile that exudes genuiness.

[Cerese]

I have a very short time to absorb and catch up - (my daughter is getting married tomorrow !!!) but I scanned - and there seems to be some thoughts out there that Jason is not F1 - along with the opinions that Deanna is distant with all the guys - maybe she has not found her love after all. Lynne, Cape, Kresge, and I could go on - for the super sleuthers - is there possibly some truth to all of this. A possible "surprise" ending could mean good or bad - but I have to agree with several - that Deanna would be a little nasty to keep Jason all the way til the end - she must know - if in fact she gets 2 nights with him - she couldn't be on the fence til the end - so is Jason going to go with the yet again superb edit - and Deanna will suffer the rath of ther fans ? Or is Jesse the one - which I wouldn't buy at this point !! So the quick question is -- is there any possible truth to these various rumors - what do you all think ....

[BachNoFoolMe]

Originally Posted by Estella

Wow, thank you so much for the pics, K9Mom!!! Yay, he's hot
And I love that hug at the rose ceremony party... "Every time you see her makes you wanna hold her even tighter and not let her go."

& will probably see more of him doing just that as the Epi's go.....

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by Cerese

I have a very short time to absorb and catch up - (my daughter is getting married tomorrow !!!) but I scanned - and there seems to be some thoughts out there that Jason is not F1 - along with the opinions that Deanna is distant with all the guys - maybe she has not found her love after all. Lynne, Cape, Kresge, and I could go on - for the super sleuthers - is there possibly some truth to all of this. A possible "surprise" ending could mean good or bad - but I have to agree with several - that Deanna would be a little nasty to keep Jason all the way til the end - she must know - if in fact she gets 2 nights with him - she couldn't be on the fence til the end - so is Jason going to go with the yet again superb edit - and Deanna will suffer the rath of ther fans ? Or is Jesse the one - which I wouldn't buy at this point !! So the quick question is -- is there any possible truth to these various rumors - what do you all think ....

We are hearing what the naysayers are quoting. I, too, would like to hear what, if anything, our sleuthers have heard.

[redrose]

Originally Posted by appiah01

One thing I notice with the interaction between Jason and Deanna is just how normal they seem. To me it looks like two regular people dating as opposed to the overinflated drama and intense interactions between Deanna and some of the other guys. J and De seem as if they are just two regular people who are getting to know each other. That may not look like the epic fairytale with dramatic twists and turns but to me it looks like reality and I prefer that over a fake romance with no grounding in real life or normal male/female behavior.

Also with Jason Deanna is not the agressor. I am a very Type A, alpha female but I love when a guy assumes some control over our interaction. All of the exchanges we have seen between De and Jason have shown him being the agressor, albeit in a fairly gentle fashion. He asks her questions as opposed to the other way around. Part of why Deanna seems as if she is interviewing the guys is because of the fact that they don't seemingly take control and lead the conversation. Jason does that making their interactions seem more balanced to me. Even the way he hugs her seems protective. It's hard to judge someone's character or personality based upon 2 episodes of a tv show but he seems like the type of guy who would help Deanna relax and have fun while also feeling taken care of and not having to always take the lead.

Not for nothing, he's adorable to me and just has a very kind face and smile that exudes genuiness.

I totally agree with this - he exudes such confidence that makes him very attractive, and I absolutely love his deep voice. Also, someone needs to cap when he reveals he has a son to the other guys in the house - at the very end of the segment he breaks into a smile - I don't think he's ever looked hotter!

[KareyR2]

Originally Posted by bachlorfan

I still can't digest , how or why she would let the whole package (Jeremy) slip away. Makes no sense to me. JMO

While I was totally blown away by flybyloves gushing descriptions of Jeremy prior to his being on the show...I mean the guy just sounded so perfect. But once seeing him, and his awkward interactions with DeAnna, I just don't get the fuss about Jeremy at all here. I find him to be a bit boring, and he did come across as a bit arrogant in his interactions with the other men, to me. He is handsome, perhaps very nice, he seems to have some compassion for DeAnna...but I don't find him to be particularly engaging, interesting, funny...and I do not see him as a good match for DeAnna at all. They have even spoken as to the difficulty of them conversing, flashbacks to Grayham and their painful date... Jason appears to be much more at ease with DeAnna and the other men, as they seem to be with him. I can hardly wait for Jason's date with DeDe, and I so wish that Brian got a one on one. Brian is just standing out to me more and more. For Jeremy to be a total package and perfect for DeAnna, he would have to show a bit more personality and fun! JMHO of course Thanks
Karey