Graham **SPOILERS**

[bizbachfan]

I wonder if this was his ex...I found these posted on another site...and they were taken this past New Year's....He looks really happy around her...

http://img159.imageshack.us/img159/954/57090825cd9.jpg

http://img107.imageshack.us/img107/7901/46507874mr1.jpg

Another pic of them...

http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn73/Lynn71965/Graham4.jpg

she's a cutie!

in one of her interviews posted on jokers D says she is in New York, of course could have been for publicity, but isn't all the ABC stuff in LA?

Deanna would always feel anxious with Graham, he is too "hot" so to speak

[Google]

 

[SweetElvira]

Originally Posted by simplechef

I can see why Deanna is attracted to Graham. It's very obvious he makes her motor run. However, I don't think Graham realized he'd be so uncomfortable in this situation. Deanna is very strong willed person, and I believe Graham is a bit shy. I think she scares the whoopah out of him, and he runs for the hills. Deanna will get over it... I don't think they had a strong emotional connection, just a strong physical one. It's only Jason we've heard asking about her, how she is doing, about her family, her mom, that is very appealing. If Deanna doesn't fall for Jason, she's made of stone.

PLUS... Jason has the building story line.

Deanna and Graham are completely incompatible on an emotional level. They may be physically attracted to each other, but past that? Nothing. Or next to nothing. Regardless, it's not enough. I believe her frustration comes from wanting more than the physical attraction and not getting it. It happens. Graham is the kind of guy whom, in real life, you go out with a few times, sigh over, call your girlfriends and vent about, and drop unless you're killing time and don't want a serious relationship.

And yes, Jason does have the building story line, plus the substance that Deanna is seeking in Graham and not finding. (The substance is probably there, but not for the two of them.) She'll go for the substance if there's the least shred of physical attraction, which is why she'll choose Jason as F1, and not by default, either. He's the tortoise, and he wins, as he should.

Originally Posted by shoepie

Deanna, he is just not that into you. This is what I see happening.

That, too.

Plus, I'm annoyed that he keeps turning their conversations into talks about how he feels about what's going on. Not the right way to advance a relationship, especially under these circumstances.

[BuckeyeGal007]

ITA with everyone about Graham being emotionally disconnected.

I think Graham is a great catch for some girl, but it's going to take someone really special to tear down whatever walls he has put up around himself. It seems he has some trouble getting emotionally connected to DeAnna. I think that he geniunely likes her but this type of situation is just not for him. I think, too, that he knows she's here to find her soulmate, her husband, and Graham is so not ready to take the plunge.

His insecurities and holding back will just end up being too much for DeAnna and I think that's why she'll let him go.

[wildsagefire]

Does anyone know why they broke up? He said on their first date he was just over a breakup. I can't see someone who is so fresh from a breakup(New Years), getting over it in a few months. What year was the breakup anyway? BTW...IMO

[palmasola]

Were the pictures the ones with the soap opera chick?

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by wildsagefire

Does anyone know why they broke up? He said on their first date he was just over a breakup. I can't see someone who is so fresh from a breakup(New Years), getting over it in a few months. What year was the breakup anyway? BTW...IMO

He said on their 1-1 beach date..he just got out of a relationship...and she asked if he was ready to dive back in..something like that..

[VelvetBex]

I Think he wants to be into her but he isnt, and this is why hes a bit aloof around her, its a subliminal way of saying 'this isnt working' but he doesnt know hes doing it.

Im not his biggest fan however i think he needs more of a softie girl to let him be more comfortable, Dee is too strong for him I think.

[angelic_one2002]

Originally Posted by shoepie

Deanna, he is just not that into you. This is what I see happening.

I do, too. He's not into her enough to get past his insecurity of all those other men there dating her.

[CoolCruiser]

I think that Graham is the front runner in Dee's mind right now. (9/6 cut not June 9)

He evokes the greatest passions from her. The anger and rejection she was feeling and which she vented at the BBQ were clearly directed to Graham. I think he was THE reason she exploded... not the behaviour of the other guys.
She was still reeling from the pain of the confrontation with Graham at the race track.

And she said specifically to him at the race track that she wanted to kiss him. For someone who isn't kissing guys left and center, that was very telling. We didn't even see her kiss Jesse on their 1 on 1 date!! (btw, IF it happened, it was either too hot to handle OR it was so bland that we would catch the lack of real passion in that relationship at this point)

Meanwhile, Jason is just consistently being there for her.

WOW, he is just the real deal!

[northernviewer]

I wonder if this was his ex...I found these posted on another site...and they were taken this past New Year's....He looks really happy around her...

http://img159.imageshack.us/img159/954/57090825cd9.jpg

http://img107.imageshack.us/img107/7901/46507874mr1.jpg

Another pic of them...

http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn73/Lynn71965/Graham4.jpg

That girl plays Amanda Dillon on All My Children, (my favorite soap) just 'cause she's an actress doesn't mean that they don't hang out together but they could be just celeb pics.